This guy at grad school just stares realllllllllllllly close to my face, really intensely, and until I looked he finally looked away really bashful...
We've never spoken, but everytime we make accidental eye contact, he quickly looks away.
And I always feel him staring at me whenever we're in the same vicinity...but we NEVER HAVE SPOKEN.
Does he want to talk to me? I tried once, but he quickly looked away yet he's ALWAYS watching me...ALWAYS...I don't feel uncomfy, but I don't know...
2007-12-21 16:28:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
But he talks to other people, including the "prettiest" girls who are always dressed up...maybe bc they're white like him and im azn/blk?
2007-12-21 16:34:34 · update #1
He's trying to read your mind. Trying to know what you feel about him. He looks away because he sees the fear in you. Speak up to him and ask, "Why.....?".
2007-12-21 20:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by Guess What? I'm Human 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably really shy and uncomfortable with himself. That and you may be really intimidating to him (smarts, physical appearance, personality, money, status, etc). If you're into him maybe you can invite in to an outing where there will be a lot of people. That be easier for him to to get to know you.
Movies alone together is not so great because you aren't going to communicate, but something active that gets the blood running could open up his personality. Find some kind of common ground. If you're in grad school then you both probably have something in common, like curriculum, subjects, professors, etc.
If you're not into him then tell him to stop it. Sometimes guys just need direct communication. It sounds like he's a bit creepy, and I'd be careful around him. Never walk alone and tell someone about this in case you go missing.
2007-12-21 16:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by skullandbones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, he's either a little stalkery or just really shy...maybe a mix of both. As long as you don't get an "uncomfy" vibe than maybe try again with talking to him. Do you know his name? look for him on facebook or something...see who his friends are or where he hangs out ... what his deal is (just to be on the safe side). Maybe he was embarrassed because he thought you only tried to talk because you caught him staring. Next time you see him around, maybe if he's with friends and your with friends, try talking to him then, when he's more comfortable.
2007-12-21 16:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Alexis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL. Sounds like the way I met my first real love. It was my second year at college, and I was really attracted to a girl. And she probably caught me doing the same thing several times. Sometimes, when an uncocky guy is really attracted to a girl, we actually get really shy and hope you'll make the first move. If you tried talking to him, he must not have noticed. So, my advice, being a guy, give it a try. Talk to him. I'll make it super easy. Just walk up to him and tell him your name... If he still doesn't talk to you, you might want to call the local mental hospitals and as them if they have a patient missing.
2007-12-21 16:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by no name 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stare back at him and see if he likes it!!! If he is in Grad school he is old enough to know that is NOT how you start a conversation with a woman! He sounds a little nuts, I would seriously stay away from someone like that...
2007-12-21 16:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by Phelper 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are two options here.
#1-He's interested and is just unsure about whether or not to make a move. He might just be shy.
#2-He's creepy and has stalker potential and you are just the object of his affection.
I would say go with your gut in this situation. If he doesn't make you uncomfortable and you think you might be interested in him, make a move. If you aren't interested in him or you feel uncomfortable in any way, mention to him that you notice this is happening and kindly ask him to try to refrain from staring.
2007-12-21 16:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by Lilly Jones-Fair 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he is quite shy and timid so he finds it hard to respond to you verbally (he's totally infatuated with you).
A smile is the best ice breaker and it's universal. Every time you see him looking at you give him that special smile that girls have and after a while try talking to him again. He will eventually melt for you.
2007-12-21 16:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel uncomfortable for you. If the guy will not talk to you, what's it matter? And if you get to the point where it does make you uncomfortable, you'll either have to be passive (avoid where he will be) or active (tell him to knock his **** off). You should think more of yourself than to be sucked into whatever game this is, and if he can't get up enough stones to talk to you, don't spend another minute on him.
2007-12-21 16:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by alyosha_snow_crash 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He likes you obviously but hes to shy to talk to you. If you like him or want to get to know him just go up to him and talk to him 1 on 1 dont go up to him with a friend or burst out in front of the class so he feels uncomfortable!
2007-12-21 16:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Frank 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just a very shy guy who finds you very attractive, but given the intensity of his stare and his seeming creepiness, you may have a potential stalker or pervert on your hands. Keep your wits about you.
2007-12-21 16:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋