I'm a guy, who is yet to be married. Am an Indian, friends say I've attractive personality. I observe girls wanna be with me N talk to me...a few of them even tried to shaow off B@@s... I had many opportunities to have XXX with a few of them...but, my concious says, wait till marriage N have it only with ur wife. My question is, am I right?!! OR Can I go ahead N have it with some pretty girls, as each one of them is different?!! PLEASE ADVISE... Thank you.
2007-12-21 16:02:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
save that special thing for the woman u will spend the rest of your life with, don't use it for something it wasn't made to be used for, lust. as lust isn't love, lust is just a feeling within yourself. wait until u meet your life partner, u will be happier if u do.
2007-12-21 16:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well morals are wonderful, and there is nothing wrong with that. Saving yourself for the marriage night is admirable. Not likely though. You will probably want to be in a relationship with someone you care for deeply before you go for the gusto. You will appreciate the act much more if you wait until then. If that is your marriage night so be it. Good for you.
Remember there is a lot more sinners out there in this area than you could possibly count. Myself is one of them...we practiced for 3 years before we got married. Married now 26 1/2 years. Togehther for 29 1/2 years.
2007-12-22 00:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by Toffy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait till you are married and give it to the special one you are married to. Sex is not a game. It is an intimate expression of your love to the woman you have made a covenant to be with too. You will respect yourself more in the long run. And if you are from India you will not want to mess up your karma. You know what I am talking about
2007-12-22 02:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by charity k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would just say....it's way too much going on with sexual diseases and all of that. Now dating is different. You can date without laying down with someone. I totally recommend dating, but sex makes things complicated and you never know who you will lay down with . But please if you have sex, wear plenty of protection. Know your STD status at all times.
And for the record, I totally admire you about your virginity. Your virginity is special and you should not give it to someone you don't love. I would say for peace and health's sake, wait on your wife. You will be so glad you did. But do date and get out there, make sure you maintain boundaries.
2007-12-22 00:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by MadameJazzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound like this is your first time. I suggest you have your fun now ( of with safe XXX) with the others so you won't be stepping out on your wife later from being curious
2007-12-22 05:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a friend of many India/Indian people, WAIT!
You will have doubts about marriage if you get addicted to nasty girls that will do anything for attention.
Also, in the future what if when you have children and they have something wrong because YOU gave your WIFE an STD?
Keep yourself CLEAN.
PEACE
2007-12-22 00:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by Georgia on my Mind 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do you expect your future wife to save herself for you? If you said yes, no you cannot have sex, you need to save yourself for her also. Do not have a double standard. This really is a personal preference and you have to decide for yourself.
2007-12-22 00:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only wasting your time to enjoy your sex life with girls as oppourtunity knocks once. I'm a married woman to my hubby twice my age, and like a guy to pleases me sexually when I needed it with the guy I want no matter happen. My hubby knows I'm more needy sexually so he approved my flings with guys. I'm flirt and like to experience more guys' varieties, the more guy wantt to have sex the more fun.
That's why I like hot guy not you.
2007-12-22 00:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait till marriage.. it's only fair to your wife. You'll be a hoe if you're just gonna give it up to just anyone because you feel like it.
2007-12-22 00:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you don't do it, you might regret it for the rest of your life and wonder what it would have been like and wish that you had.
If you DO do it then you may regret it for the rest of your life and wonder what it would have been like with your wife if you had stayed pure for her.
tough choice.
2007-12-22 00:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by stop_staring_please 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋