OK well i think im over protective because one of my friends calie started dating one of my friends dylan last week. And my other friend Bailey started dating one of my other friends Corben. Now i used to like both of these girls. I have been thinking that im overprotective because they think im the reason the guys broke up with them. I just dont want the girls to get hurt. And i dont know if its if im a tad jealous or im actually overprottective. PLEASE ANY ANSWERS WILL HELP!
2007-12-21 15:14:02 · 5 answers · asked by Chang Lee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We all go to the same school and i think that im actually a good friend. but i also think im getting into thier lives a bit and i know i should step out but its not that i want to date either of them i DO NOT like them anymore. they think i do. but how do i fix the damage?
2007-12-21 15:45:32 · update #1
and yes there is a reason they r my best friends to me. but this is just coming on to me that i think they may hate me at times but i think its just cuz there mad and how do i get them to understand that i just dont want to c them get hurt?
2007-12-21 15:47:30 · update #2
probably a lil of both...you love them enough not to want them be hurt.
be careful though...you could lose their friendship....
so if you love on of them...tell them.
God bless
2007-12-21 15:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by cecstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're a tad too involved in worrying about the lives of other people. You're not their parent and you don't own them, so unless you can decide who you want as a girlfriend, I'd back off and just let people be and do as they choose. We all need to have our own experiences and learn from our own mistakes in life. Being really close friends is okay, but don't step over boundaries and expect to control what others do. That is being more over-bearing. Not wanting friends to get hurt is okay but they have to make their own choices. If they ask you for guidance, fine, but I'd back up directing other people too much. Keep your focus on your path in life.
2007-12-21 23:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you want the girls for yourself and are jealous because they now have a different distraction. If you keep it up, then they will no longer be your friends. I know you mean well and don't want them to get hurt but just be their friend and be there for them when they need you.
2007-12-21 23:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by Average Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is confusing, and really doesn't give enough information. It doesn't indicate that you actually DID anything, though it hints at it. My guess is that you are all pretty young, and relationships don't last long when people are young. Maybe these girls are just looking for someone to blame - anything other than to realize that there wasn't anything there, and that they are too young to date!
2007-12-21 23:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are doing what you think is right. There must be a reason for you watching over them so well.
2007-12-21 23:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋