Should a couple have equal time with oral sex?

Question

I do it nearly everytime we have sex and she does it for me about once every4-6 months (we have sex about once a week).

Answer 1

absolutely! My husband and I have an arrangement for this: if one doesn't receive, the other doesn't either..simple as that. No feelings of being left out or resentment in our bedroom!

Answer 2

Wow. That sounds like my relationship, only I was more of the giver and he was the taker, except for lately when he's been appreciating me more-finally.

I do think that a couple SHOULD have equal time. But from what I've heard, that's not the way it usually goes.

Answer 3

There is no "Sex bank". You don't get out what you put in. Should you be giving her oral because YOU like pleasing her? Talk to her about why she doesn't give oral more often. Some women just don't like it. Personally I just have to be in that sort of mood to receive AND give it (I guess I'm weird though).

Answer 4

Well, I think that whatever works best for each couple is what works best for them.

I'd say that's a BIT out of balance though, I can see why you wouldn't be too happy with it.

Talk to her about it. Tell her you're not really that happy with your sex life. That might wake her up a bit.

Answer 5

Yes, but we are opposite of you. I usually give him a special treat, but we don't always have traditional sex, so actually, he gets more sex, one way or the other than me. But then he usually has this two day growth of beard on his face and that really hurts in certain places. ya know?

Answer 6

Nope, you're doing it about the right ratio.

Oh, c'mon, it's up to the particular couple involved. If you don't think you're getting it often enough, then talk to your partner.

Answer 7

That's 50-50 by a woman's count.....lol

Answer 8

YES! YES! YES! and thank you for this question!!!