Confidence?!?!?!?!?

Question

Any ideas of how to get more confidence?!?!?!?!

Answer 1

Small steps. Start with small things. Smile when someone looks at you instead of looking away. Get involved in conversations more often. Once you start doing things like that and realizing that it's ok, you'll find yourself more able to be confident in your actions. It's a gradual process and you may have some setbacks (i.e. someone might b mean to you), but the thing about confidence is that it come from you - no one else, and it's up to you to make more of it.

Answer 2

Experience is the best confidence builder. You go to school to learn how to do something. You have confidence because you have done it at least once in school. Now you go out into the world to learn how to really have confidence in knowing you really know what and how to do whatever you have learned to do. That comes with experience.

Answer 3

i have low confidence, and what i do is go to my friends when im down and hang with them. They always tell me the truth. I also hang with people i know but don't know enough so they help me from my feelings, i get compliments from they and it makes me feel like great. Even at school ( if you still go) or even at work, answering a hard question, people tell you that you are smart and it makes you feel good. Most importantly just accept yourself for who you are and then people will give you more compliments and you feel even better.


You can also help people, such as going to an animal shelter and just volunteer for like an hour, you feel great that you just helped our world, or even recycling, to know you are helping our earth. Or even helping people feel better about themselves

Answer 4

One major thing is the mindset, as long as you're willing to try to be confident and have set your mind to do so, nothing is too hard nor too difficult to achieve...

Answer 5

Start by being confident in urself and have a positive attitude 'bout everything, then everything else will fall in place..

Answer 6

well i have recently had this problem as well, im 14 and i was really shy especially around boys and stuff so i figured well if i want something to happen its not going to unless i make it so if i wanted to build a relationship or friendship with somebody than i would have to talk to them myself and they did talk to me back. we have a good friendship now. if you are in cofident with yourself then think well i only have one life, one look, so i need to make the best out of it. if people put you down theres no reason to listen or believe because if they are doing this then they must not be your friend or a good friend. so i hope i could help [: