anyone with a worth while answer is welcome but if you have anything stupid to add, keep it to yourself. i feel bad enough.
2007-12-21 14:42:45 · 10 answers · asked by nephroyti 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You need to elaborate. Did he start acting weird once you told him? What kind of weird is it?
2007-12-21 14:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by That's not my name 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband was the same way when I found out I was pregnant with baby number 2.. and we planned and tried for this baby. So I was expecting him to jump for joy like I was, but instead he acted kind of weird and didn't really want to talk about it for a while.
I think it's probably just a shock to them, planned or not. I'd give him a little while to try and get used to the idea. I know it's hard to be excited alone, but he'll come around!
2007-12-21 14:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, I would suggest finding out if you are pregnant, (go take a home pregnancy test, or a few), I am not sure what you mean by your husband is acting weird, but if I had to take a guess I would say that you mean he is acting differant, that could be hormones, when I first got pregnant I thought everyone hated me and was acting like they hated me.(ya crazy i know but thats what hormones does to you). I wish you all the best and good luck.
PS: Happy Holidays!!!
2007-12-21 14:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Foxy B 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Does he know that you suspect you are pregnant?
I have heard that there are a lot of guys who want a child and try for one, but once it is a reality it freaks them out because of finances and the responsibility.
He just needs time to get used to the idea, he will come around and be just as excited as you.
2007-12-21 15:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by Valerie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband kind aacted different after we found out i was pregnant..even tho we had both been trying for while it was like...oh wow its happened what are we going to do?? lol not just what but what are we going ot buy what is it going to be. the normal stuff. He might just give you a cold shoulder for a few days just go drive around(thats what we did) and listened to the radio and talked everything out..it'll get better goodluck and congratulations!!!
2007-12-21 14:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women think first about having a healthy baby, then what color to paint the nursery--hehe
Men start worrying right away and planning. So, he might be preoccupied with thinking about bills, changes to the marriage, college fund, can he be a good father, etc.
Give him a little time for it to sink in, then talk to him about his feelings.
2007-12-21 15:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine was so excited before we found out and for like 2 days then he turned crazy and depressed I think he has that man pregnancy...couvade...Good luck!!
2007-12-21 14:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by Duderoni 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is prob just scared talk to him and find out what is going on
2007-12-21 14:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by mother to Eva Nicole 4/25/08 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he is shoked, he does'nt know what to do because it is his first time(is it his first time?) he get use to it.
2007-12-21 14:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by Unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he might not be the father...
You have NOT done anything wrong,
tell him to step up and support you.
2007-12-21 14:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by jon_mac_usa_007 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋