Do you think it's ok to get married, when you are pregnant and showing? Or would getting married before you start showing be your preference? We have talked about marriage before we found out I was pregnant, and planned to. We don't want to wait 'til after the baby is born to get married, but I'm 2 months pregnant now, and he doesn't care either way if I'm showing when we do get married, and he doesn't care what his family thinks. They know we are expecting and so does my family. If we get married before I start showing that'll be in the next two months that we'll have for making the plans, or I could wait 'til it's summer time and have a nice outdoor wedding with his and my family. Which would be better though in the long run, showing and having more time to plan for the wedding (about 6 months) or not showing and kindof having to throw everything together within 2 months?
2007-12-21 14:10:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Why wouldn't it be? It's not like you got pregnant and then planned on it. BE PROUD OF THAT BABY BUMP!!!
Are you worried what other people will think? If you love him and your baby, no one else's opinions should matter. And if anyone says something negative, tell them to go to hell (and if they do, they shouldn't be in your life for being so judgemental!). You don't have to explain a damn thing to ANYONE! :) Best of luck to you and your new family!
2007-12-21 14:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Maria 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So many peopel make that mistake of making a wedding all about how they look. You coudl plan a Beatiful ceremony in 2 months though if you'd like, but even if your 9 months pregnant when you get married you can still look Stunning. Its nto abotu anything but teh love and the commitment to eachother, whcich you will already eb sharing with your child. SO honestly, its alright, wheich oen would keep your stress level down more would be to wait a little longer and go for the 6 months away, which could be better for teh baby, but if you have a tond of help planning the wedding, even a wedding planner, it would reduce your stress leveel a lot as well. Good Luck, adn either way the wedding and you will be Gorgeous on such a joyous day!!!!!! Congrats!!!!
2007-12-21 22:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Haley 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If everyone knows you're pregnant, then what's the issue? Honestly, my friend got married when she was 7 months and because of the style of the dress, you couldn't tell one bit. If I didn't know she was pregnant, I never would have guessed it. I think you should plan the wedding that you want and not rush it, you would probably regret rushing it in the future. Find a dress that will grow with you, and plan out the wedding you want.
(By the way, if there's anybody that's going to be at the wedding that you don't want knowing you're pregnant...trust me, they'll do the math anyway...people are more nosy than ever these days...)
2007-12-21 22:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by Gage's Mommy :-) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally would wait until after I had the baby. Just because I'd feel more better. Planning a wedding can get very hectic. Also being able to drink, and really celebrate the once in a lifetime moment would mean a lot to me! Wouldn't you feel a lot better having more time to plan a beautiful wedding that you thought over well, rather to rush into just to get it all over with before you really start showing, although I don't see no problem being pregnant in your own wedding! It's all up to you though! Good Luck. Hope it all comes together beautifully no matter what! (:
2007-12-21 22:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe that it doesn't matter whether or not you are showing. You should be extra-proud to be married while carrying your baby. I think it is best to get married before the child is born because you will find that after the child is born you will be able to do nothing other than give your new addition all of your attention. the wedding would be put off and you will find it a lot harder to make your plans for marriage. You should be happy about showing during your wedding,, and one day you will look back and remember that day as being extra important. You would be tying yourself to the two most important things in your life.!! Your baby.. and your new husband.. GO FOR IT !!!!!!!
2007-12-21 22:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by txdotx 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Anyone whose opinion matters will know that you are pregnant anyway. I say do it whenever you want!
If a summer wedding outdoors appeals to you, then go for it! Just remember that it's gonna be HOT if you wear a dress that is too heavy, especially being pregnant. I'm sure can find a beautiful summer style maternity gown. Think of how adorable you'll look in it with your baby belly! Awww!
And your baby will show up in all of your photos. =D
Do whatever makes you happy and don't let anyone bring you down. Congratulations on the baby and the wedding!
2007-12-21 22:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Eva A 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well my daughter's dad and step mom got married when she was 7 months pregnant and she looked absolutely beautiful... I don't really think it's a big deal either way, but you might enjoy it more if it's everything you want instead of just tossed together because you don't want to be showing... Either way you are still pregnant, right? Anyhow, good luck to you and I hope your wedding is everything you want it to be :)
2007-12-21 22:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just go with what's more comfortable for you. I mean, being heavily pregnant in the summer isn't my idea of comfort, but it also gives you more time to plan. Or you could just try and put things together in two months, which isn't exactly as hard as it sounds. I just think you should talk it over with your future hubby and then make a decision.
2007-12-21 22:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by ஐღKellyღஐ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you already know you want to be married, get married before the baby is born. Don't worry if you are showing. Have a small ceremony and celebration with very close friends and family.
2007-12-21 22:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by That's not my name 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry whether your showing or not. Don't put extra stress on yourself by trying to plan a wedding so fast. Take your time and have that beautiful wedding with your family under Gods beautiful sky.
Hey I walked down the isle with my 1 year old.
2007-12-21 22:17:02 · answer #10 · answered by loquitaamericana 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋