Ok, I'm 17 years old. I'm going out with a 14 year old freshmen. My parents don't know about this and I don't think his do ethier. I have this feeling my parents will be upset about it.
Do you think it's wrong for me to be going out with him?
What should I do?
2007-12-21 14:02:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
He turns 15 in 5 days anyways.
2007-12-21 14:10:00 · update #1
I would never have sex with him. I'm still a virgin. I'm not going to have sex until I get married.
2007-12-21 14:11:16 · update #2
Actualy he's a very mature person.
2007-12-21 14:12:42 · update #3
He plays video games but most of the time he doesn't.
2007-12-21 14:17:27 · update #4
Actually, all his friends are juniors and seniors.
2007-12-21 14:22:11 · update #5
If you honestly like him, don't let anything come in between you too. The age may be a little problem if he's not mature, but if he makes you happy don't worry about what other people think. If his parents (or yours) find out and are unhappy about it, sit them down and tell them how you feel about each other. If the relationship's worth fighting for, then that's what you should do :]
2007-12-21 14:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by xx SUNKiSSED xx 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you guys are three years apart. Well, your parents should understand. I don't think it's wrong at all because age shouldn't stop love. Also if you do tell your parents bring up the fact that they are probably three or more ages apart. Most parents are like that. My dad is forty and my mom thirty-seven. So they are three ages apart too. If you don't want to tell then you should talk to your parents and ask them "Mom what if i had a 14 year old boyfriend" "I don't but just a random question" You could also ask your counselor. Hope this helps.
2007-12-21 14:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should see where your relationship will go. I'm only 13 but I've had 2 boys in my life. My mom has a boy who is 17 years older than her. They are very happy together. See if it will work because you might get attracted to older boys. Stay with him for a while and just see what happens. If you really like him then you could be dating for a while.
2007-12-21 15:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by luv2read_al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think you are too old for him, and I'm afraid that if either of your parents find out, they might freak out. I think your best bet is to break up with him...sorry. The thing is, once you turn 18, if you end up in bed it's illegal. Well since you're going to avoid this, I guess you are alright to remain his gf. I still think your parents might take the news of you dating him the wrong way. I suggest you find an older guy.
2007-12-21 14:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by 2O11 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is kind of an akward age difference, but it depends on your specific situation. I am 16 and am dating a 20 year old, but I am also going to college because I am ahead, so it isn't really a weird difference. The only thing that matters is that you feel comfortable with it. Don't lie to your parents though because they'll find out eventually and you don't want to lose their trust.
2007-12-21 14:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
yes actually i do! And no i don't!
Yes- If you are ready to grow up he will still be playing video games on his couch! When you start collage he will only be a sophomore or junior and won't even be able to drive just yet.
No-If you really like him then good for you. I think its good for now but later on in life no way!
2007-12-21 14:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
since ur name is jessica i'm guessing ur a girl.
i don't think its ok to be a couple with a boy thats younger than u
ur parents will be like
''wut the freak''
when u tell 'em
break up like now
i bet he's bragging to his friends 4 being a couple w/ u
ur probably just a trophy or something
please don't take this in a bad way
best of luck
elle
2007-12-21 14:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Elle the Model♥ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Explain to your parents that you really like each other. I mean how many years apart are they? Sure, it seems like a lot of years as a teen, but when you're 40 it won't seem like a lot at all. Tell them that you don't want to break up.
Good Luck. =)
2007-12-21 14:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by κιm♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOO. i just turned 14 and it would be pretty cool to have a 17 yr old gf but it will be awkward in lots of siituations, try when he is ur age or let it go
2007-12-21 14:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by _orleans_ 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are a girl and should date a guy older than you. If you ever date a guy younger than you, he will never protect you besides demand from you which is not what a typical boyfriend is suppose to do.
2007-12-21 15:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋