im bi....but not openly. i want to tell people....but i go to school with my step brother and i don't want him to find out because then he'll be an a sshole and like tell my dad or something and when im ready i would like to come out to my parents myself. there are some people who know at my school though....but i want everyone to know. i really would like to have a girlfriend. i've had about a million boyfriends and i've had like zero girlfriends...and i really want one. but i dunno how i can get one if hardly anyone knows about me being bi. i really want a gf too because like i love being nice and being i guess the romantic one in the relationship and when im with a guy i can't really be that person because thats what guys do. and i just really want a gf that i can hold and chase after if we get in a fight and look after and give my sweatshirt to when she's cold. i just want to do all those things....but i dunno how to get a gf without my bro finding out.
2007-12-21 12:26:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ohh yeah and i guess its kinda bad that im pretty picky about girls. i only like feminine girls and even so i really want them to be suppper pretty. i dunno why...but when it comes to girls im super picky...but when its guys i don't really care too much what they look like.
2007-12-21 12:30:40 · update #1
I think that you should just tell your parents when you are ready don't worry about your dumb a** step brother. And I know you will find the right gurl for you super pretty and all
2007-12-21 12:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think you dad wound find out when he insisted on meeting the "guy" you're dating (assuming you'd lie about her gender until the time was right)...
And the WORST thing you can do is tell EVERYONE that you're bi - ESPECIALLY if you're trying to hide this from your brother!
Just try to find out what other girls are bi (or lesbian) - and discretely approach them. If they show any interest - THEN make your move ;););)
2007-12-21 20:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them about tell them how you feel right now.
2007-12-21 20:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Richie for da ben dan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋