Did you plan the first time you did it or did it all happen by accident?
2007-12-21 12:20:27 · 32 answers · asked by June 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Danielle R when you are making out naked yes it can just happen. sorry if you need to spend hours working out positions.
2007-12-21 12:25:02 · update #1
i don't think sex is ever an accident
2007-12-21 12:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 2 · 15⤊ 2⤋
We had talked about it. . . . a lot... for several months. We were both virgins, so it was a huge deal to us. We both decided that we were ready so we made sure we had condoms. And then after a while it just happened. It wasn't like we went out that day and knew "today would be the day". And I've never regretted it, he's now my finance. :)
Good Luck in all you do and Stay safe
2007-12-21 13:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by STRESSED spells DESSERTS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woops a boy just slipped while you happened to be naked and ended up putting his penis in your vagina? Yea, that doesn't sound very plausible does it? There is no accidental sex. If you realized that "we went to far" being naked and kissing, then he could have pulled out.
2007-12-21 14:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is better to plan it, yet sometimes it just happens. Accidental sex would be like if you are drunk out of your mind. Believe me, many people I know have had accidental sex. They usually regret it. Matter of fact, it's hard for them to remember what really happened. Parties to blame.
Sex should always be planned. It is better for the couple.
2007-12-21 12:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by Violet 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sex can't be an accident. Accidental sex would look like two people walking around naked and one slips and falls on the other one while the male accidently slips into the female. Since this doesn't happen there is no accidental sex.
Even if you didn't go into it intending to have sex there was a point and time when the decision was made to go ahead with your feelings and participate in sexual intercourse.
Yes, my first time was intentional and preplanned (you might say) it was on my wedding night with my husband.
2007-12-21 12:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by jhg 5 · 6⤊ 3⤋
by accident ...do u mean mistake??
i think so....
but no...i did not plan my first time...and YES it was a mistake...i was only 14...and STUPID! i regret everyone ive ever been with except the father of my kids....i was his first at almost 19 :) i really respect that.
and omg...if ur making out naked...come on now...i know the guy wasnt planning on stopping there....and you can decide whether you get close enough for it to go in...so NO it doesnt JUST HAPPEN...omg....lol. thats only an excuse for people who regret what they did....and even then it doesnt work.
2007-12-21 12:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jada and Ty's mommy 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
hey i know what you mean they don't get it. you mean that whens you are both together and things get carried away and you actually hadn't planned on doing that but it just happened in the moment
no not for me. i actually planned my first time cuz i didn't wanta mess it up or forget the protection and it had to be perfect. when i say plan plan i don't mean plan on paper but we talked about it first and we both made sure that it was what we wanted to do. he kept asking me are you sure for quite some time for about a few months until i honestly said yes without any doubts.
2007-12-21 14:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by Avangelis 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well planning is way nicer. Waiting is too. I'm one of those people who was with the guy for a year before and had protection. Night of highschool graduation. Hotel also! Very sweet :)
2007-12-21 12:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It was planned by the older girl who seduced me. I didn't have a chance.
But I suppose the only time I had accidental sex was when I got a hard on at the pool and I was swimming underwater to a corner for privacy when a girl did the cannon ball right above me. Her suit went up, I was already stiffed right out of my swim trunks and the magic happened. She had this surprised but pleased look on her face when our eyes met under the water. We're now happily married with a child. He came along about nine months later, but we'll never tell him he's an accident.
2007-12-21 12:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by Jay K 5 · 8⤊ 5⤋
I havent done it yet so I cant say
lol rebecca has 30 thumbs down
2007-12-21 15:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by ILikePie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Varies by the people. If it just happens, it still is not an accident.
2007-12-21 12:24:32 · answer #11 · answered by Dana O 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋