2007-12-21 11:55:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
yes i would love my girl to become intelligent and relises what i have been telling her for the past years!
2007-12-21 11:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by nyleridedog 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you can see wonderful potential in a person that is of course a great thing, but there would be little point in being with someone simply because you thought that they COULD be wonderful.
For eg, one of the biggest moans people have about failed relationships is how that person 'just wouldn't change'. They are coming from the point of view of 'what they would become', which is obviously disastrous.
2007-12-21 20:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ellesar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always love someone for who they are.
Who knows what any of us will become?
2007-12-21 20:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Ste Bone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love a person for who (s)he could become rather than what (s)he is, you are being extremely unfair to that person and setting yourself up for a well-deserved disappointment.
2007-12-21 20:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
How can you love a person for who they'd become, if you just don't know for sure? I'm no psychic.
2007-12-21 19:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by Hawai'i 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mom has often said, "Never fall in love with a man's potential", because there's no promise they'll meet it. So I try to chose to be with people based on who they aready are. Excellent question.
2007-12-22 04:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by YearoftheRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who she is....real love is to spontaneous for what they may become
2007-12-22 10:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For whom one is, of course. How can one love something that is not even here yet?
2007-12-21 19:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Mistakenly.....for what they could become.
2007-12-21 22:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋