I read these questions and I get so upset that some women come in here to write stories that are deaminig to our gender. Is like if we can't live without guys approval. As a women, married at that, I tell you, I love my husband, but he is not the boss of me. I'm my own person. I value myself. I will never come here to be crying about my wrong decisions. Some ladies here need to grow up and face their own actions. I do not center my life around any men, not even my husband. Why? Because he can fail me...look at this forum for confirmation that men and women will fail. I wish some of you will stop nagging about:
pornography, I'm fat, my husband left and I'm dying, he does this, she does that,,,Give me a break! Life is too short to be wasting it,,get up your fat butt and do something about it! You can actually live without a men you know!
2007-12-21 08:50:33 · 10 answers · asked by Nena77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry for offending you dear priest (Junkyard) didn't know there were people out there with the wedding book open everythime they faced an independent women...You have a problem with my mentality because you are probably a macho husband whose wife is intimidated my how well you can quote your little nuptials..I feel for your wife,,,,,assuming you have one of course...You are probably gay!
2007-12-21 09:18:31 · update #1
everyone has a right to ask questions, need a help or complain or cry and so on, just as you have right to say something over here. if you do not like to read those messge, you just ignore them and it may be good for you.
2007-12-21 09:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by shanghai beach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and let me quote this exactly because it goes towards your mentality:
"...I do not center my life around any men, not even my husband. Why? Because he can fail me..."
lets see if i can remember the vows correctly: "do u promise to love, honor and cherish, and forsaking all others for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health 'till death do us part".
i can already tell by your statement that you have exactly zero faith trust and committment towards your husband and your marriage, so rant away about others who are having problems and are asking for help, because at least they are adult enough to admit their marriage isn't the greatest; unlike you who believes she entered into a purchase that after a while...can fail.
and by the way, following your last statement...men and especially your husband can live without you too...and so can the rest of society.
*EDIT* JUST 4 YOUR E-MAIL 2 ME:
well as u have me as a priest i now have a better job than i had 5 minutes ago...
all i did was read what YOU wrote, remind you what YOU agreed to in front of GOD and your friends and family, and show everyone else on here just exactly how good of a wife you are to your husband when your only comment about him is how you know he can fail you, but you come on here bi**hing about everyone else...and you didn't like your own words fed back to you, u know u didn't have 2 marry a man, no gun was forced to your head...now was it.
independent woman with your morals and values = possibly cheating husband with good reason.
one last thing, accusing me of being gay is like putting an elevator in an outhouse, it just doesn't go.
i'll again ask GOD 2 bless you as i am now so close to him being His diciple...as you made me that way.
2007-12-21 17:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems you need to write a column in a newspaper. Here, we all have opinions and the faster you find out yours is not the only one, the faster this will be a better world.
2007-12-21 16:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by New Nana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I read Dear Abby and Yahoo Answers to laugh at stupid people. If don't like this means of entertainment then go someplace else.
2007-12-21 17:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way you wrote your comment/question.....I bet you have a "DOOZEY" of a story to tell about you own Father....
Good luck to your husband....
2007-12-21 16:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Dog Rescuer 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Rant.
2007-12-21 16:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by jessica.lanelle 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You go girlfriend!
2007-12-21 16:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree
2007-12-21 17:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by God Bless America!~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you attaking ,get over it
2007-12-21 17:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by chizzyI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Midol????
2007-12-21 16:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by Lord Libido 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋