I'm bi-curious. I met a girl on the internet. I sent her a friend request because I thought she was cute. At first, she just stayed there, and we never spoke. Recently, I have started up conversations with her. We have been talking for about two months now over the internet, and plan on meeting in person tonight.
The deal is - she has a girlfriend. I know she really stresses out over her girlfriend, and although I havent mentioned it to her - I think he gf is probably seeing other people... she's never around.
So, tonight when we go out... I'm almost hoping I'm not attracted to her... because I don't want to complicate things. I am very intrigued by her.Should I hold back regardless of how I might feel,or should I say something.Also-what if she tries something, should I say no?I'm confused. I'd have to think she has to have some kind of attraction towards me and wondering the same.Not to brag, but I am way better looking than her gf and she tells me things she cant tell her gf.
2007-12-21 08:39:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
how about you guys just be FRIENDS.
2007-12-21 08:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
You cannot be bi-curious, you seem to be slipping in my own oppinon. You have gained more intrest in this girl?
Sounds as if you beginning to like her, so go with the flow, shes not going to assault you! But she will be happy to see someone to talk to, so make sure you are there for her.
Ask her questions to know her more perhaps, plus you can always arrange another date if it works, take her number too to ring her :)
Just talk to her as if your intrested in her, and also that you are there for her so she can progress a better friendship etc etc
2007-12-21 17:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
computer attractions dont always flow over into real life meetings--
keep your expectations low
if there is attraction--go with it
you only live once
2007-12-21 17:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by slopoke6968 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she acts like she's just totally not into you, don't mention it, but if you think you could go somewhere, you should say something.
2007-12-21 16:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the flow.
2007-12-21 16:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by xcluesivebabe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you even bother saying that you don't want to complicate things? stop BSing and snatch that snatch.
2007-12-21 16:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by nobudE 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋