2007-12-21 07:58:12 · 34 answers · asked by ohboy790 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's hard to say, because I have never been through that. Me and my best friend would never cross that line though. It's kind of an unspoken thing not to mess with your friends ex. I wouldn't want someone she has had anyway and vice versa.
2007-12-21 08:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's your ex, you've got to remember that he/she's not going out with you any more, so you shouldn't really be jealous/mad/envious or whatever you're feeling unless you still have feelings for your ex. However, you're friend should have some respect for you and ask you whether you're OK with it, unless they think it's just harmless flirting. Tell your friend how you feel, they'll stop if it's bothering you that much-if they're a true friend.
Hope this helps :-)
2007-12-21 08:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever happened to the unspoken rule between friends, well, at least girls. She is ur friend, she watched ur ups and downs in the relationship, u most likely confided in her about him etc. she has no business with him at all....i once had a huge thing for a guy in school and he asked my friend out....after they broke up, he asked me out and i turned him down because it would be a betrayal to my friend....the level of offensiveness also depends upon:
how long you dated
who broke up with who
and the like
confront her
2007-12-21 08:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by cdlfamilyof4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you have every right to be mad about a friend flirting with your ex, regardless! A friend should consider your feelings...Ask yourself a question - would you flirt with your friend's ex? I know that I wouldn't, it's bad form if you ask me.
2007-12-21 08:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is usually considered polite for your friend to ask you if it's okay, or for her to tell you she likes him, but you shouldn't be mad at her. Your relationship has ended with him, so try to be happy for her. Plus you know things about him that you can warn your friend about. Who knows, she might be a better match for him than you were. Sounds like you may be a little jealous. You may not be completely over him.
Be happy for her.
2007-12-21 08:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by dg2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what is flirting.
I would be mad if my friend thought I was flirting with their ex, when I was just being friendly.
It goes both ways, if it is deliberate flirting.........then that is not really your friend.
If it is just being nice..........tell her you're uncomfortable, but you can't force people to be unfriendly to make you happy.
2007-12-21 08:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Yen Foo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how this is. Actually, it depends on how you left off with your ex. Me and my ex broke up on bad terms so I told my friends to SHUN her. But some didn't and it got me mad. If you were on good terms with your ex, than it depends on how long ago you broke it off together. It may be too soon for your friend to be flirty with your ex...It is ultimately up to you though
2007-12-21 08:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by ninertwo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's your ex, right? Once a ex, doesnt that mean you are finished with him. You cant have it both ways.. Learn to let go. But if you are really annoyed by it. then Let her know and I am pretty sure she will listen. Because she wouldnt want to hurt your feelings.
2007-12-21 08:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's your ex meaning not going out anymore. your friend should be mor concerned about your feelings, but you also have to be concern their's so if they are flirting with your ex that because they want to and it should affect in any way.
2007-12-21 08:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by ashmat12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats kinda rude but hes ur which means u have moved on but if your jealous then obviously u havent
2007-12-21 08:00:39 · answer #10 · answered by ☮Kayareeyees☮ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋