2007-12-21 07:57:21 · 14 answers · asked by Jaded 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
it's very hard.... it happened to me a long time ago... took me a very long time... and what helped me was going away for a week on my own... doing whatever i wanted to do...
the fresh air did me good.... everything takes time though.
2007-12-21 08:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by The Unknown Soldier 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cried and cried when my husband and I broke up after almost 13 years but then instead of a divorce we filed for a Legal Separation and we stayed like that for 2 years. During the 2 years we ended up being great friends and we remain great friends, still today.
2007-12-21 17:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I continue living my life, and ignore that it still is in my subconscious somewhere...
In the meantime I try new things, change the way I think and act in hopes of forgetting. Holding on to a silly romantic dream does not make me or break me as long as I do not get paranoid about it... (Which happened before and was scary too).
2007-12-21 13:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by EndorphinRush 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know deep down what helps you. It takes a lot to get me there but I tend to cut off whatever it is that upset me.
You could try a new hobby that help take your mind off the situation, read, go outside~anything that you think you can do.
All the best.
2007-12-21 09:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by Quality 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure how to help with this one. Each person has their own way of dealing with things.
For me, it was a lot of crying and finally accepting the facts and forcing myself to move on. That is me. It may be something different for you. In time, you will find a way to deal with it. I wish you well.
2007-12-21 09:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by Alright 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you think they will Dock me if i gave all my gap clothes to the Red cross my mouse keeps PLAYING AROUND WITH THAT RED BOX !! help !! would you believe i still gt a knit sweater
navy blue and still wear it BOUGHT IT AROUND 1989
same label same square [black&white ] tho, turtle neck
embossed with an Aztec design
2007-12-21 08:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just don't, and I feel myself being tortured by things that wouldn't have bothered me if I had just learned to live and forget.
Don't be like me. Try your best to let go.
2007-12-21 08:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I immerse myself in misery, but I wear it like a cloak and keep it to myself.
After a while, I learn from it.
Every disappointment, pain and loss will eventually make you a stronger person.
2007-12-21 09:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by Yellowstonedogs 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If it affects you badly, remind yourself that it shall be better in the future. If it was good for you and you can't have it back, take it as a life lesson.
2007-12-21 19:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by 007butterfly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take Starchild's advice, it is better than 'stuck in a rut'.
2007-12-21 12:18:26 · answer #10 · answered by Dianne m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋