i have a friend who is 14 years old and fount out 2 weeks ago she is prego.. the dude she is prego by is 18 and i was wonderin if he will get in trouble.. and if she is can they in married.. they live in Virginia.. any info will help me..
she dont want to tell her mom cause she is afraid they she will press charges.. and the dude is fixin to turn 19
plz help
2007-12-21 07:27:54 · 10 answers · asked by Furture Mrs. Tootill 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If found out that she was sleeping with an 18 year old, she is considered underage for him. It wouldn't really be considered having "sex", with him being so much older then her it will be taken as a form of rape.
If anything is said about the 18 year old and her having sex then it is likely that he will be going to jail for awhile. No offence to your friend, but she should have used protection or not have done it at all.
I give you guys my best of wishes and I hope all goes well.
2007-12-21 07:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 15 when I got pregnant by my 18 year old boyfriend. Authorities considered pressing charges, but as they realized that he was stepping up to the plate, opted to let it slide. But, I wouldn't count on it. I frankly think it is wrong to take away a child's father based on a few years in age difference among two people having consentual sex, but I wouldn't plan on anyone else viewing it that way. If your friend is really concerned about charges, she could always play the "I don't know who the father is" card.
2007-12-21 15:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by tiffanykaine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 19 year old man should not even WANT to be with a 14 year old child!
He can and should get into trouble.
2007-12-21 16:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An 18-year-old who would sleep with a 14-year-old is seriously disturbed & should go to jail
That's sick
2007-12-21 15:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by ˚despeяate housewife˚ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she really is to young too be having sex but what is done is done. as for the guy....if she was willing i dont think the cops can do a whole lot...i think she has to press charges..not sure though.
2007-12-21 16:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_pea0687 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no i dont think he will get in trouble cuz if it is like it is in missouri 21 and under 17 in stagetory rape so i would look it up , she cant get married w/ out her parents consent, and even then i dont think they will let her till she is at least 16 so idk but if u have ne questions add me on yahoo, sexy_beast_jen, or msn hotchick10996@hotmail.com and by the way my name is jennifer and i am 16 and i kinda know wat ur r goin threw so if u want to talk let me know kk ttul
2007-12-21 15:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to tell her parents, she can't hide it forever. Things will go better for her if she is honest now.
2007-12-21 15:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its statutory rape (sp?) and he can go to jail for it, how long depends on the state but i think its normaly like 2 years.
2007-12-21 15:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by j0hn6oo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is going to have to tell her mom eventually...are you sure this isn't YOU. the guy is probably going to be in trouble too btw
2007-12-21 15:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by tracy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if her parents allow her to get married they can....and yes it is possible for him to get in trouble
2007-12-21 15:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by fwpryncess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋