my partner has been calling and texting another woman 24/7, I found out about this on our itemised phone bill. He denied he was cheating and said I jumped into conclusions. This woman is married and I know the husband[didnt know them before], should I show the husband the bill and see if he is not going to think like me.
2007-12-21 07:15:52 · 20 answers · asked by loveness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course not. Are you evil?
2007-12-21 07:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope I would contact her and tell her you would like to talk with her as you have your phone bill and if she does not want to cooperate then you are sure her husband will.It would be great if you could get the both of them in the same place without either of them knowing the other would be there (her and your husband ) then sit back and watch them sweat as you grill them on why her no. is on your phone bill. The decision is up to you about you and your husbands future. Affairs are not mistakes but they are forgivable keep this in mind sweetie Happy Holidays
2007-12-21 07:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confront this other woman and tell her your husband confessed their relationship.
Don't say "cheating," or anything, use those exact words "Confessed the relationship." Keep it vague, and gauge her reaction. This will tell you all you need to know.
You will also have a long hard talk with your husband, but I agree with most, let other people work out their problems. This is not about THEM - this is about YOU and YOUR husband.
To those who say "I'd want to know" - a complete stranger comes into your life and says your mate is messing around with theirs. How compelled would you be to believe them?
2007-12-21 07:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in same situation my partner was doing same thing with secretly married cousin of mine for weeks txt sms calls at odd times until it got to a point that it was unbearable i left it alone she & he had fight over something she abused blamed him left to her husband.I knew the husband but never told him my bad after years hes still going off on me for no reason in front of everyone even if u tell him it wont change things in ur marriage this man is going to be same if its not her it will be some other girl do what i did
2007-12-21 07:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope...get rid of your man (thank God you're not married) and start YOUR life! I have had more than one experiences with this (where my man was cheating with women with partners) and not one time did I stoop to the level of playing heart breaker. HE WILL FIND OUT! HE WILL! Do you REALLY want to be the one who crushes him just to get even? How does that help you except for a quick taste of satisfaction (at someone else's expense). Be a grown up, mature and calm and leave all of those people behind.
2007-12-21 08:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by laura1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, tell the husband...
I had a similar problem years ago... I was involved w/ this guy, we worked together... he was involved w/ a married woman as well, as I found out after I got pregnant, ugh! anyway, I told her husband... he was glad I told him... she kept lying to him about the bp gas station bill, all the gas and new tire charges on the card... him and her had just adopted a little girl, and he was rather pissed that she was willing to ruin her mother hood and her marraige...
they divorced... I just recently found this out, shortly after I told him of the affair...
good luck...
and be sure to dump this guy... if it's not this woman it will be another woman down the road...
2007-12-21 07:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get his phone number and start calling and texting him. If he asks why your are calling or texting him just let him know that's what your wife and my partner have been doing and you didn't want the two of you to feel left out.
2007-12-21 07:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Leaveamark 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to do that? Will it cause hard feelings? Can you prove they did anything beyond text/talk? Then why would you want to cause this man pain and possibly cost him his marriage? It sounds to me like you don't trust your husband and want to be spiteful. I do not agree with this action. If you want the truth then ask and if you don't trust your husband then deal with that but don't include this man in your problem.
Momma_Bear
2007-12-21 07:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by the_morris_bears 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should. Let him draw his own conclusions, though. If your relationship is over because you cannot trust him anymore, the married woman should at least try to explain to her husband...
2007-12-21 07:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Does the phone bill say it was him? Or just that someone did?
2007-12-21 07:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,,interesting!,,,Im really out of words on this one,,,hmmmm...part of me is saying,,"HELL YEAH"...but then the counselor part of me is saying,,"Two wrongs don't make a right"..But then again if you tell you are not in the worng,,,hmmm,,,,hey,,,,let me know what you end up doing! I would like to follow up on this one!
2007-12-21 07:23:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋