Is there any person here who is gay who can honestly say that they lost their virginity to a person of the same sex and never ever touched a person of the opposite sex.
I'm interested because I see a lot of gay people who switched but have not met a gay person who was apparently immediately gay.
2007-12-21 04:56:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
foir the benefit of those that think I'm trolling - asking a genuine question isn't trolling. I just like to exhaust a line of enquiry before moving on to the next. I had a fad for zombies last week.
2007-12-21 19:49:56 · update #1
Never had a female and never will-thats being considered a "gold star gay"-when you have never had heterosexual sex.
2007-12-21 05:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by C P 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Right here. Totally gay, never wanted to or have been with a member of the opposite sex. Lost virginity to a guy.
"I'm interested because I see a lot of gay people who switched but have not met a gay person who was apparently immediately gay."-
Now you have. Stop trolling the lgbt section btw
You're beginning to look like a closet case.
2007-12-21 05:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I never "became" gay - I was born that way.
I have never had sex with a person of the opposite. I have never even so much as kissed a female in a sexual way or had a girlfriend. Nor has my partner.
Many gay people experiment with the opposite sex because of the pressures to which people in our society are subjected to be straight (or at least behave that way).
Normally a few experiments with a person of the opposite sex is enough to tell most gay people that heterosexuality is not for them. Again, these people aren't "becoming" gay - they were that way to start with and are just confirming that fact.
2007-12-21 05:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by thatgaybloke 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I knew I liked girls when I was 7. I didn't have sex then, I just knew that I always had my "crushes" on other girls and not on boys. I never had any feelings for boys, I never had sex with a man. I lost my virginity to a girl as a teenager before I ever tried to "change" to be str8.
I made out with a few guys during a period where I was trying to change. I hated it, it made me physically ill. I'm a lesbian - always have been, always will be.
2007-12-21 06:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by FTW 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've never had sex with a man, nor a woman (yet). Still a virgin. But I do know that I am gay, though. I'm just attracted to women a lot more than men.
2007-12-21 06:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Ultraviolet 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am still a virgin. So I have never touched a person of the opposite sex. I just know what I am attracted to.
2007-12-21 05:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by Pentagram 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never had sex with a woman. First sexual experience was with a man when I was in my early 20's. I've been enjoying men ever since. Gay male, 51 years old.
2007-12-21 05:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jay K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I knew I was gay when I was 15 and didn't have sex with a guy until I was 21.
2007-12-21 04:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by Snookles © 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
people don't "turn" gay or switch to gay, they are born that way and it is not a choice. They may try to change by having a heterosexual relationship, but those seem to never work. The same thing applies to transsexual people too.
2007-12-21 05:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by nikki_anne_mi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm straight but im also a pre-op mtf transsexual in my mid 20's and i have never even kissed a girl romantically let alone slept with one i have always known since i was little that i liked boys
2007-12-21 09:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by Puddle Dive 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋