After i had my last baby i got my tubes tied. My family kept pushing me to get them tied. I got them tied. I wanted a big family. At times I get really blue about it. We want to have another baby so badly. Is there any advice that anybody can give us? I would like to get them undone any cheap suggestion. please be considerated in answering this question.
2007-12-21 04:38:24 · 31 answers · asked by Latoya W 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Have you considered adoption? You will be giving a child a loving home and also have another child in your family.
2007-12-21 04:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by jwbovftn9d 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, some of these people are so rude! I looked into a few websites and the prices listed for a tubal reversal is about $5,000-6,000. It appears that a lot of places will charge more if you have a higher BMI. It sucks that your family pushed you to do that when you weren't ready. But many people do things to make their family happy. You're not alone there! A surrogate seems like a good option, but this costs about 20,000 from what Ican find. Or adoption might be a good choice for you too. You might look into a personal loan or even the carecredit (kinda like a credit card, but for medical expenses.) http://www.carecredit.com/ I hope this helps! And ignore all the jerks that decide to answer these questions with their smart@ss comments and lectures. You know what you want and you deserve it! Good Luck in whatever you decide!
2007-12-21 06:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sorry! That is a really tough situation that you are in. I haven't gotten mine tied so I can't really relate but, I felt the same way with the family pushing ( I have 3 kids) People are rude and can't believe that I would even think about having more. The truth is that I love my kids and enjoy being with them. People are just jealous of you....that you can handle kids. I don't really have any cheap suggestions for getting your tubes untied because I heard that it is very expensive but...how about adoption or becoming a foster parent? I don't know how you feel about that but, it is a way to do something good for another person and to have another child in you life. Good luck with everything, I'll keep my finger crossed for you!
2007-12-21 04:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by mama3 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-09 01:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, for the people who are only suggesting you go to the doctor: Of course she's going to go to the doctor! Yahoo answers is just a way for people to get other people's opinions before doing something such as going to the doctor. Doctors cost money and this nice girl wants our opinions or the expertise of someone who has been through the same experience! People who belittle people with honest questions need to chill out. They are only asking for your help!
Now for your answer from me.....
I have heard from a BUNCH of different women that they have had complications due to having their tubes tied. This is why I am never going to do that. If you want a baby, I do suggest talking to your doctor about having the reverse procedure done. On the other hand....I WOULD NOT GO WITH THE CHEAPEST SUGGESTION. If you want something like this done to your body, for the sake of your reproductive organs and your health review your options not by the cost, but the efficiency. Choose a Doc who doesn't mind you asking a lot of questions. Some Docs seem to rush me on certain decisions- don't let them rush you on this one.
2007-12-21 04:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't say how many babies you've had.
You don't say how well you can support the babies you have.
You don't say why your family pushed you so hard to get your tubes tied.
There's no such word as considerated, but while being considerate, I would say that you should focus on being a good parent to the children you have, taking care of them, educating them, turning them into good people. If, after five years, you still have a yearning, then do something good for yourself and the world and become a licensed foster parent, and parent a baby whose parents are unable/unwilling to care for it. There are far too many children in the world without the loving homes and care and nurturing that they deserve, that all children deserve. Take care of those children you've already brought into the world. Nurture them, love them, educate them, prepare them for life.
2007-12-21 04:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by chatsplas 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, the only way I know of is to reverse the procedure. Since most insurance companies don't cover the reversal, you will have to pay for it and I am sure it isn't cheap. The only other options are In-Vitro Fertilization (also not cheap) or adopting. If you are open to it, you may want to look into adopting a child from another country.
Sorry I don't have any "good" news for you. Best of luck to you.
2007-12-21 04:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by MJL613 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This answer should be asked of a family physician and your spiritual guidance person.
There are many things to take into consideration.
Financial, moral responsibility, etc.....
Do you have enough funds to send another child to college? I am sure that you have plenty of love but love doesn't pay the bills.
Give it lots of thought and think of the extras you would have for the child/children you already have. Then decide.
Sorry but this is the best I could do.
2007-12-21 04:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by nantinki 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I had mine done, the doctor told me that it was not reversible. He said any attempt to recontect them would have scar damage on the tubes causing them to be too narrow to conceive in the womb and most likely if a pregancy occured it would be a tubal pregnancy that would have to be terminated anyways. Sorry...... That's just my info from my doctor.
2007-12-21 04:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by Liz A 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What does your husband say about this?
I think it's selfish of you to want this without consulting with him. And if you're not married, I think it's selfish of you not to consider the effects of not having a stable household would have on a baby. Keep your tubes tied.
2007-12-21 04:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋