2007-12-21 04:08:32 · 10 answers · asked by hot_dude488 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well...it is up to you
i am 18 years old and i know that i am gay.....but for me, being gay is not about sex, it is about a need to love and be loved by another man....
homosexuality may be different for everyone.....
if you are straight, then you have to make up your own mind about whether or not you want to engage in homosexual activities......
i also do not know how old you are.....if you are really young, then i really don't suggest you having ANY sort of sex until you are at least a bit older........overall though, if you feel you are ready, no one should stop you....
if you are older.....than you are old enough to make mature decisions on your own....
and another common myth is that, if you are straight and have sex with another guy, then you will become gay....thats not true and many gay boys and men....sometimes have sex with other men, then go back to their straight lifestyle.....
whatever you want to do is up to you...
a word of advice though......regardless of who you have sex with and regardless of whether you have it with a boy or girl, please make sure you are ready.....and please wear a condom...or have your partner wear a condom.....
i hope this was helpful....
2007-12-21 04:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by James Boroznoff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men wanting to have sex with you doesn't make you gay. You wanting to have sex with men makes you gay (or bi if you want sex with women as well).
If you are an adult and want to have sex with men, then go ahead, assuming you can find a willing partner. There is nothing wrong with being gay.
2007-12-21 04:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by thatgaybloke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you be gay? Of course you can. Is it OK? - certainly.
But you should ask yourself - "Am I gay?"
Just because men want to have sex with you doesn't make you gay. If you want to have sex with them (and not with women) - that would indicate you are gay.
Being gay is not a choice - you are either born that way or not. The only choice you have is how you act on your impulses.
2007-12-21 04:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
er..... u can be whatever or whoever u want....
And bcuz MEN wanna have sex with u doesn't make u GAY ... the thing is DO YOU WANNA HAVE SEX WITH MEN ? If u do, then ur gay and this is OK...
2007-12-21 04:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious its ok to be gay. Also, you have a right to say no to sex.
2007-12-21 04:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt anyone wants to have sex with you.....you are most likely about 12 or 13....right? I gather this by the horrible grammar and spelling.
2007-12-21 04:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by Oberon 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
The real question is when does school start again?
2007-12-21 04:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by Lupe S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question you'll have to answer for yourself.
2007-12-21 04:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by Sean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you be gay? Yeah but the question is Am I gay?
2007-12-21 04:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anthony l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt they do ;)
2007-12-21 04:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋