I like this girl at school but there's a few problems?
Right, I'm a 15year old M2F transgender living as a guy and as a guy I'm straight so as a girl I'd be a lesbian, which I'd much rather be and if you need anymore info read my previous questions.
Now, I've been hanging about and flirting with one of her bestfriends(my exgirlfriend(my exgirlfriend has known that I want to be a girl ever since we first met and she's my bestfriend) said she okay with it as long as I'm happy and I'm not upsetting her or anything) and me and this girl who's kind of a tomboy, have been having a really great time together and she said if she wasn't taken she'd go out with me, but seen as she's taken she pretends I'm her older brother and seen as she has a boyfriend and I don't want to drag her into two timing I'm ok with this but there's one problem: she has no idea that I want to be a girl, even though I tend to talk about girls stuff with my ex and her friends and seem to enjoy being treat one of the girls but she hasn't really noticed how girly I act and she hasn't really even picked up on that I want to be a girl and I really want to tell her about me wanting to be a girl but I'm worried she won't want to be friends anymore and the difference between when I told my ex and this is that my ex picked up on it.
What can I do, I want to tell this girl that I'm a girl stuck in a boys body but I'm afraid that it willl ruin our friendship?
2007-12-21 03:24:36 · 3 answers · asked by Lily R 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am not sure I understand what the problem is. It you want this girl to know you are a transsexual then tell her. If she does not like it then find another friend who does. there a lots of girls about and most of them wont mind
2007-12-21 03:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
How does talk about other people?
Sometimes you can judge how someone will react to you telling them something private and close to you by the way they talk about others. Does she gossip? Does she seem open or closed minded when it comes to non-traditional ways of thinking? Perhaps you should first ask her if she would be comfortable talking to you about something that you don't tell many people and that some people wouldn't be able to handle.
2007-12-21 03:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by Abra B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u might not ruin it. you will have good friendship with any culture you have. chill ;-)
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2007-12-21 04:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋