Why are boys so grimey?!....how do you get over being completely humiliated?

Question

I dont want to say what happened but I would like some advice on how to get over being humiliated please!

Answer 1

Oh god.
tell me about it!!
I hooked up with this one guy.. and he swore up and down to God that he wouldnt tell anybody and I wouldnt. This happened when we were on break for Thanksgiving.. so the monday I get back... the ENTIRE school is just staring at me.. whispering sh!t. The guy I hooked up with is a really popular football player, so all of the football players would come up to me (and still do) and say rude **** or yell stuff out. I cant believe him!

guys dont think about others feelings.
all of the guys that i know, are all fVck and chuck jerks,
and they actaully think that its funny!!??
how would that be funny? i have no idea, they are just pricks
i think they need to live for awhile in our shoes and
then go back and they would know how fvcked up they are!

Answer 2

Humiliation is the result of a situation and a response. A situation or event alone does not cause humiliation, but our response to the event can make us feel humiliated. If your response to a situation is to show humiliation, anger, and disgust, it only makes people's response to you, usually laughter, worse. If we laugh it off and ignore their jibes or joke with them, the effect soon wears off and the event is forgotten because no one will remember such a reaction. People like to remember the bad things that happen to people and situations that made the other person feel bad because everyone has had bad situations and they know how they felt; its good to see other people have problems, too, sometimes. But, if you treat it like it is no big deal, you rob everyone of the opportunity to think they got away with something, because you thought it was nothing. Brush the dirt off, clean up, and show that you are better than what life has dealt you and that you can manage anything unfazed.

Answer 3

ignore them unitl everyoes forgot