Depressed?????????

Question

I am really very depressed. i feel like a part of me is dying everyday. I just cant see any meaning to live. i am so ugly and people keep telling me so. they even call me names. I am being bullied all the time. I can feel people laughing at me all the time. i am really very ugly. i really need help but cant confide in any1. i am thinking of killing myself. I dont want 2 live such a life. plzzzzzzzzzz help me out???

Answer 1

Being bullied says more about the people who have a need to be mean then it does about you. Feel sorry for them. Their lives must be trully miserable.

Now read what you yourself told someone else (below) and listen to your own advice. It was good advice and you helped them. Its easy on here to tell people what they should do with their lives and then turn around and not apply it to themselves. You have a belief in God and he loves you no matter what. Sometimes we go through horrible times in life and sometimes they feel like they will never let up especially when we're young. But those times do pass. You know already the power of prayer and I think this is a good time to ask God to help you and show you that you do have blessings in life that are worth going on for. People who do love you for your inner light.

Pray and if you can speak to your pastor about these feelings. Depression is so widespread especially around the holidays but it passes. If it doesn't reach out to someone. Help is all around you. Help someone else .. that has a way of bringing happiness to yourself.

" dont ever lose heart cause those who are special LIKE YOU should never lose heart.God created us and love us loads.Even no one loves u in this world as long as u have the indefinite love of god u are done cause god loves everyone equally.there is no injustice in his love.AND ABOVE ALL HUMAN BEINGS SHOULD BE LOVED BY ONE ANOTHER CAUSE WE ARE ALL RELATED IN SOME WAY OR THE OTHER.REMEMBER ALWAYS THAT U ARE SOMEONE SPECIAL AND WORTH LOVING."

Such a small portion of your life will be spent on these thoughts of unhappiness compared to how much life you haven't seen that will be filled with wonderful memories.

Answer 2

Wow, I'm so sorry, that you are going through this right now...My heart hurts for all the pain that you are feeling. I'm also mad for you too, that people don't take the time to see you for who you are. That is not the way it should be!!!
Even though your heart feels completely broken right now, its amazing how Divine love and love from others can seep in through the broken cracks if you let it.
I'll be thinking of you and hope that you can find somebody to talk to. Even if you have to call a hotline such as 1-800-273-TALK, there's no shame.
Hoping...
Julia




"No matter how ruined man and his world may seem to be, and no matter how terrible man's despair may become, as long as he continues to be a man or woman his very humanity continues to tell him that life has a meaning." Thomas Merton from No Man is an Island

Answer 3

I am sorry your feeling this way, I know it must be very difficult for you and I am not sure what I can say to make you feel better, I don't know what you look like but everyone is beautiful in there own way ( I know that's a song) but it's true! I really wish I had all the right answers for you I most certainly don't want you to take your own life, if your really serious about suicide I would suggest calling a suicide hotline, the people that run those lines probably have been in your situation and can really help, it couldn't hurt at all. I wish you all the best, Happy Holidays!

Answer 4

yes, you're depressed and it's your responsibility to do something about it. this is why psychotherapy exists -- to help us crawl out of dark holes and start living.

excuse me for challenging you, but even if you aren't the most physically beautiful person on the planet, you must have some good qualities, both physical and more importantly personality, values, etc. there's the right hair cut, the right make-up, etc, etc. (not if you're a guy but you get my drift)

if you're really dissatisfied with your physical appearance, what can you do about it? are you overweight? if so, start losing weight and doing exercise. this has the added benefit of creating a positive mental outlook (read about endorphins as a result of exercise).

I have been seriously depressed in my life and at one point did feel like suicide was the only way out. Instead I got help in the form of therapy and the right meds and a new person -- it took several years of hard work -- poor self-esteem and negativity are not cured overnight.

You don't have to suffer like this and your ending your own life would be the most selfish thing you could do. You would create unimaginable pain for others, and would deprive yourself of the chance to heal and live a full, productive and joyful life.

What are you waiting for? Life awaits you.

Answer 5

Suicide should never cross your mind dear. You sound like you could use a shoulder to cry on and kind face to talk too. Counseling if your in school, or a therapist if possible. I was in the about the same place you are in when i was in high school. Almost went through with it too, Then I realized I was better than them, my life would be worth more if I turned it against them. I became everything they couldn't I started working out, reading, and learning everything about cpu's.
Here I'm a year from my degree in IT, I'm healthy, and in good shape. The rest of my class have multiple kids, work dead end jobs, and are in sorry physical shape. It may not work for you but now when I rub it in their face now it is the greatest thing ever. It totally makes up for the crap I had to go through. Just don't do anything illegal, OK.

Answer 6

Please don't kill yourself. The people who make fun of you aren't your friends and pretty soon your life will change. Life changes all the time but at the minute you are forced, everyday, into a situation that you have no control over.

When you're independent, you'll have total control over your life, the people you meet, the friends you make, where you go and what you do etc. You only really need to make one good friend who likes you for who you are and everything else will become unimportant.

Get a pet for now (a nice cat), they will love you and you will be responsible for them and feel that your life has a purpose again.

Answer 7

This is something that can be worked on with the help of a professional. Depression is sometimes a struggle that you will always deal with, but there are ways to make it easier. Try talking to a phycologist, counselor, beloved friend, anyone that can start you in the right direction. I am just happy that you are ready to seek help. In the mean time, find something that you really enjoy, and get out of the house and do something for yourself. It helps to keep your mind off those troubling thoughts.

Answer 8

Firstly i am sorry people are treating you like this..and secondly don't ever tell that you are ugly.you are a creation of god and god's creation no one is ugly.people who call you ugly might be those whome you have accepted the fact that you are ugly.why do you feel that you are ugly....because the important thing is a person is not good looking or ugly by their face or body structure a person is always seen as beautiful or ugly from inside how the person is from inside will tell how the person is.....because beauty is skin deep and beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder...what i want to say is if any one calls you ugly give them good tell them yes if they feel like that let them feel and ask them back what do they think about themself do they feel that they are smart or beautiful..don't give up so soon fight it out.because dear you live life only once and that life is very very prcious to you just don't say this that you want to finish yourself if you do like that people will call you a coward and also till the time they live they will talk about you as a ugly person so my dear friend don't give up fight for it if they comment on give them back and ask them to put a question to themselves asking what do they fine themselves as ugly or beautiful don't keep quiet if they you tell them i know god has give me this life a life which is far beautiful and there is no other person like you who is living and you are unique and that is why god has made you like this because he loves you.....so all the best and please do be depressed..........

Answer 9

WAIT WAIT WAIT DONT DO THAT. Y dont u seek some help and go 2 a counseler. There is nothing wrong with going to a counseler peole do it all the time. It was times i felt like crap my bf helped me out. U do have people to talk to u have us that r willing to help u and giv u advice. We r a yahoo family and will b said if u end ur life. I told u i can help. I do very gud makeovers i have a myspace page and want u to c how gud this girl i made up looks. She is even more cockier than me. U can look at her picks and c the added confidence. Go get a job uf u dont have one and go shopping. go to mac buy some make up. U think those girls in the music videos look like that naturally. Hell no thanks to makeup they look the bomb

Answer 10

ugly duckling can very well turn into beauty queens, some just blossoms a little later.

Forget these people laughing at you, it's just residual karma you're now working out!

I believe in the power of prayer, meditation and MindMovies.
Here is one I watch daily:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-WscYZuPtE

Use it to also learn to make your own. You are what you think. Even if you really were ugly, you can change that, by first changing the vibration of your thoughts!