ive red in a book that it hurts....is it true?
2007-12-21 00:35:49 · 31 answers · asked by gentle 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Yes it hurts a little bit....It gets better each time though -painwise
2007-12-21 01:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Each person differs!
My first time was with my Husband so I have no regrets, however, it was painfull, I even started bleeding, but only a few min afterwards, I thought I was having my periods Lol......
The second time was great thou!
Just make sure you're ready and that it's with the right person ok!
2007-12-21 00:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by Gem 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on the female_when your nervous the first time you kinda tighten up down there and that can make it painfull. Male_tell him to be gentle and if anything use lubricant if u need it , it will be less painfull.
2007-12-21 00:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will hurt if u r all stressed out and ur muscles are not relaxed that's why it's important to do it with someone u love and trust and to be fully ready to do it .. it wont hurt if u delay until u r ready
plus the guy (experienced or not) .. he should be as gentle as possible
2007-12-21 00:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Maria 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The emotional pain was far worse than the physical pain for me. Mine was forced. The Act itself wasn't too bad and the bleeding was light but the emotional scars that were left were horrible.
I would make sure that you are emotionally ready before doing this. If you are, the physical pain should not be that bad. If you are getting married and are worried about it being painful, you can have a doctor break it before the honeymoon to make it more pleasurable for you and your husband.
If he is someone who wants to KNOW that you are a virgin, then take him with you to the doctors when they break it. That way he can see for himself and it won't have to be done the first time you have sex.
2007-12-21 00:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Physically, it's not painful if you have a gentle partner who cares about you. Emotionally, it's very painful and you will probably cry...because one time and it's gone forever. My suggestion is to WAIT, at least until you are mature enough not to even ask this question to a bunch of strangers...
2007-12-21 00:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by Beach Girl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how old you are, the older the less pain. And it also depends on your own body. I didn't think it hurt that bad, but I had a friend that swears it was the worst ever.
2007-12-21 00:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by luckygirl_2021 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it hurt alot for me but i'd never had anything up there before not even a tampon and i think he was pretty big sorry if its tmi but it gets better just make sure that who ever you chose to be with the first time knows it's your first time and that they take it slow
2007-12-21 01:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by tinkchick87 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i actually dont know but as i have read articles. it may hurt and it may not. it up to the way the guy does it. IT may hurt alot but if he is good at sex. he know how do it without hurting!!!
2007-12-21 00:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by Skylord 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt a little, I won't lie. And for me it hurt the second time as well. Your first time, just make sure you tell your partner that you need him to be gentle. That will help make it not hurt so much.
If you are scared of the pain (or of sex itself) then don't do it!. Wait to have sex until you are ready mentally, emotionally, and physically. Good luck.
2007-12-21 00:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mikey's Mommy 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
this is painfull or painless depends upon human mentallity because loosing virginity is personal choice not others decision
2007-12-21 00:39:06 · answer #11 · answered by sachin jain 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋