She as helped me above and beyond my expectations. She calls me back if i call her. and she even called me in the hospital when i had leg surgery. and said on my voicemail that she was thinking of me and hope i am feeling ok. She doesnt even need to do that but she does. she always goe out of her way to help me.
i have been seeing her for 3 months and i was going to give her a card saying thanks but then i thought maybe i should tell her in person...
any ideas on what i should do....and then what i should say.
or maybe i can call her voicemail before christmas, saying that i appreciate all her help, etc? and than say i hope you enjoy you holiday.
i dont know. i just think she should know that she is so good at what she does and i think she deserves a thank you.
:) opinions please...10 points for best answer!
2007-12-20 18:41:27 · 5 answers · asked by hello 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I think that different modes of thanks send a clearer message, probably in connection with how much effort it takes for you to make them. I would find the following to be in increasing order of strength:
1. Verbal, face-to-face
2. Phone message
3. Card, note or letter
So I guess it depends on how much you want to do. It sounds like she is a great therapist.
2007-12-20 18:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see a therapist twice a month, she is very good to me and for me. every once in awhile, before i am ready to leave, i take a couple minutes and recap with her how i was when i first started seeing her. and where i am now, and i thank her for all her help and kindness. this is my way of letting her know that i know how much she has done for me... whatever way you say it she will know that you appreciate her, just use the words that you feel from the heart and it will be good...
2007-12-20 18:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by walterknowsall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a fruit basket...no i'm kidding. If you appreciate what she does for you then go up to her in person out of session and tell her "you've been helping me and going out of your way for 3 months now and i wanted to say Thank You, would you like some coffee?" XD
2007-12-20 19:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by onegremlin89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately let her know. A card would be fine. As well as telling her in person. Or both. Hand her the card and tell her at the same time.
2007-12-20 18:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Firedawg6_41 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i have never had a therapist like this!!!!
2007-12-20 19:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋