well,me and my sister are always arguing about stupid stuff
usually one of us starts crying and then we don't speak until
about 2 days.iam tired of it........ and i don't understand why it
is always about something stupid.......please help!
oh before i forget were girls and all but were never p.m.s-ing
when we fight so thats not the answer
2007-12-20 16:34:48 · 7 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well, next time u guys disagree about somthing make it a piont to 1. stay calm. no yelling no crying no drama
2. no personal attacks-bad names or otherwise
3. know your bottom line and continue to reinforce it throught the conversation.
4. if u know your getting nowhere, tell her you are done talking about it for the moment cz you see this turning into a fight, and that is not what you want to do.
5. be prepared to bite your tounge and swallow youre pride. Sometimes the cost of peace is personal humility.
good luck. i only have one brother but that was bad enough.
2007-12-20 16:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who is the older one between you both?when you feel that you're on the way to fight turn your back and move out of the room .i am telling this to you because its you who asked the question.be smart and try to stay calm it will be better for you both ,don't waste your time fighting is it that you are both jealous of each other which is the cause of the fight ....spread love all around you,isn't there enough war in the world.
2007-12-20 16:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe one of you needs to take the initiative to stop the argument before it starts..
if she disagrees or tries to argue, try smiling and saying "i love you anyway!" she will probably faint.
or give her a big hug and ask her what you can do to help solve the problem? tell her you do not want to fight.
if she won't give in, you might have to ignore her.. but do it with a SMILE. it's rather normal for sisters to argue.
hugs
2007-12-20 18:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u guys have obviously got something between u two that u just don't like about each other. wen u see an argument start to come on, either walk away, or tell your sister that u don't want to argue.........i hate arguing with my sisters too..........
2007-12-20 16:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by meghanmerie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 19:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we sisters fight...alot. but if your sick of it try laughing before the fight gets too far. but dont make it seem like your laughing at her. or if your not talking dont let her be mad at you. make her talk and laugh with you,,,
this is coming from a girl who NEVER fights with her sister anymore. not in a year
2007-12-20 16:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by Taylor Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit her right between the eyes...............
2007-12-20 16:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋