Mary, mother of Jesus = A bad mother?

Question

I believe that mary was a bad mother.
She never said "Jesus, I love you" or even bothered to say that Joseph was not the true father of Him.

She did alot of things that werent motherly, try to prove me wrong, but all she did was worship GOD not JESUS, son of GOD.

PS: I thought of this coz i was boreed. no negative comments, and if you HAVE to say something negative, do it in a nice way. (NOT "this sucks [please])

Im an athiest wierdos so dont go sayin our mother when your so called mother is down in the dirt rolling in her grave

Answer 1

okkkk...........

Answer 2

When Jesus was lost for three days, Mary found him teaching in the temple with the learned scribes. When she approached him, she said "Son, why hast thou thus dealt with us? behold, thy father and I have sought thee sorrowing." How could you doubt Mary loving Jesus when she was sorrowing because he had become lost? In this same passage she seemed to indicate, albeit erroneously, that Joseph was the true father of Jesus. This could have just been a slip of the tongue for an angel of God came to her and told her that the holy thing born of her would be the Son of God. But Jesus didn't need her to tell him who was his true Father anyway. "How is it that ye sought me? wist ye not that I must be about my Father’s business?" Jesus didn't need Mary to tell him who his true Father was. He already knew.

If she hadn't worshiped her son before his crucifixion and resurrection, I'm sure that she did afterwards. She was entrusted to the care of the Apostle John (John 19:25-26) and was with the apostles after the ascension (Acts 1: 14). I don't see why she would be with the Apostles if she was against their teachings. Other than Acts 1:14, there is no trustworthy history of her later years.

Answer 3

It is not only a sin but it is disrespectful of the blessed mother of God who always points to her Son as the source of all hope and salvation. You are missing her message to us all. So, if you really and truly love her follow her message to look to her Son instead of her. I do not understand how anyone could pray the Rosary and get closer to the blessed mother than to Jesus as the prayer is almost completely and entirely Christocentric. God bless! In Christ Fr. Joseph

Answer 4

How do you know that? What makes you think Mary never said she loved her firstborn child? How do you know she never told him about the "immaculate conception" (that's just something the Church dreamt up out of Roman Paganism, to convert the Romans. Catholic Church did that all the time)?

WHY would she worship her son over God? You make absolutely no sense. Are you bored? Or are you enhancing your boredom with some chemical substances?

Answer 5

Your sick , you fit the description of someone looking for attention , does it really matter , He came he died , he yet lives and is soon to come I pray your ready for his return it won't be Mary were looking for even she had to receive the holy ghost in the upper room she was a women born in sin as we all are and she had to ask for forgiveness of her sins as we all do , what ever they may have been was between her and God and his blood has made her whole, I pray Mercy for your ignorance and guidance for your wondering mind.

Answer 6

now wait a minute would you,just because it doesn't say in the bible that mary said she loves Jesus,I am sure she did.besides God wouldn't accept her worship if she didn't.not every single thing she said to Jesus is written in the bible,does not mean it wasn't said.

Answer 7

St Mary was very God mother read
Luke2:39-52
39When Joseph and Mary had done everything required by the Law of the Lord, they returned to Galilee to their own town of Nazareth.
40And the child grew and became strong; he was filled with wisdom, and the grace of God was upon him.
The Boy Jesus at the Temple
41Every year his parents went to Jerusalem for the Feast of the Passover.
42When he was twelve years old, they went up to the Feast, according to the custom.
43After the Feast was over, while his parents were returning home, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem, but they were unaware of it.
44Thinking he was in their company, they traveled on for a day. Then they began looking for him among their relatives and friends.
45When they did not find him, they went back to Jerusalem to look for him.
46After three days they found him in the temple courts, sitting among the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions.
47Everyone who heard him was amazed at his understanding and his answers.
48When his parents saw him, they were astonished. His mother said to him, "Son, why have you treated us like this? Your father and I have been anxiously searching for you."

49"Why were you searching for me?" he asked. "Didn't you know I had to be in my Father's house?"
50But they did not understand what he was saying to them.

51Then he went down to Nazareth with them and was obedient to them. But his mother treasured all these things in her heart.
52And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men.

Answer 8

try to prove you wrong ?? and where in the Bible does it say Mary did NOT tell Jesus she loved him ?? and she NEVER said that Joseph was the father of Jesus, in fact God himself told Joseph to mary her and whos child she was carrying..... and the Bible tells the story of when Jesus came up missing, and Mary and Joseph had to turn around and go back to find Jesus: Mary told Jesus she was worried, and what was His reply ?? * I was in my Fathers house *........ and may I add this little suggestion ?? Please READ the Bible and *think* before you speak or type of these things....... go in peace......God bless

Answer 9

Oh dear! I guess you were bored, She was beside him in a lot of the story's in the Bible. She was even there when he was lifted up on the cross. I would say she was a very good mother in every respect. Not perfect but very good.

Answer 10

She was an EXCEPTIONALLY GOOD mother. She stayed near Him when the others fled in fear for their lives!

He OBVIOUSLY knew that Joseph was not His birth-father:

Luke 2:49 And he said unto them, How is it that ye sought me? wist ye not that I must be about my Father's business?

Answer 11

I don't think so. Jesus knew that God was his father but he loved Joseph for he was the one who raised him. How do you she never told him "I love you"? you weren't there. This was over 2,000 years ago we do not know the exact details of Mary's relationship with Jesus.