Are there things you will do even though it makes you highly uncomfortable?

Question

I'm not talking anything life-threatening, but as an example, I give 3-4 lectures a year on how to research genealogy and public speaking literally makes me shake; yet I still do it. Am I the only one crazy to put myself through that...

Answer 1

Yes, I will force myself to be an outgoing and accessible person, despite having a good measure of shyness and discomfort interacting with people.

Very rarely is it detected, though. Many people have commented on what a positive and inspiring person I am, to which I always reply, "It's all an act."

Answer 2

Simply talking to other people can be a traumatic experience for some people. But for most of us, we do it every day, as a necessary evil simply because we are a social creature by nature. For those that speak to large groups, it can hinge on being phobic. In your case, I would think you know your material (as much as any expert would) and your confidence shines through to successfully get your message across -- thereby overcoming the jitters. Keep up the good work & lay those fears aside because you know your stuff!

For me, I will smile in the face of adversity. I smile morning, noon, and night. Does that mean I'm happy all the time? The answer is a definite no. However, by my smiling, despite being in pain, or in conjunction with truly being happy, I can pass my smile on to others that I interact with on a daily basis -- and always make it a positive interaction in their regard. I fear the days that I'm in extreme pain, as it is really difficult to maintain that smile. If I'm going in to work, I'll exchange my normal morning pleasantries with office coworkers & go hide in my cubicle for awhile as the pain eventually subsides. Or sometimes, I'll run out and have a cigarette & while doing so, I'll do some minor exercises & stretching to relieve the pain.

Excellent question! Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays!!!

Answer 3

I don't like visiting a certain relative of my DH because I feel so out of place in their home,,,uncomfortable...but I go anyway, because I know he wants me too. Funny thing is,,when I look back on it,,,I actually end up having a good time....so why do I always dread it?

My DH is a singer and a wonderful one,,,he was a singer in a rock and roll band that played for years here on the coast,,,made a good living at it,,,but when we got saved and he started singing in church, it was a painful thing for him,,,he was always so nervous and still is...but he does it anyway,,,,,,

I guess you could say we are all overcomers... : )

Answer 4

Public speaking has never bothered me. All you have to do is look slightly above the heads of the audience for the first few minutes.

Certain medical procedures I must undergo annually or more often, well, that's a different subject but they are required. I'll spare you the details.

Answer 5

I would love to be at one of your lectures on genealogy.... I am *trying* the *family tree* stuff out, and having a very hard time of it...... sorry, anyway, in life I think we all do things we are uncomfortable doing..... we learn that way...... go in peace..... God bless

Answer 6

I get up five days a week and go to work. I sit at a desk and shuffle paper. Yes, it's uncomfortable. I was on a cruise for two weeks. Much more comfortable. Unfortunately, I have to do the former to be able to do the latter.

Answer 7

I hate talking on the phone. Really really hate it. But do it 4 or 5 times a day.

Answer 8

If we all only did what made us feel comfortable, the world would fall into the dank pit of monotony and routine. Innovation only comes from stepping outside our comfort zone.

Answer 9

No. If I don't feel good doing that, I won't do it. Although, I do have to look at what is making me feel not good about it. I've learned much about me looking at that.

Answer 10

I took my best friends sister out because she couldn't get a date

Edit - never again