Do any of you know if there are any homosexuals who have repented of what they have been doing and ended up getting married (to someone of the opposite sex) and having a happy life? Christians, what is your view on this?
2007-12-20 14:14:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No, I don't know any, nor do I want to . Are there any heterosexuals who have repented of they have been doing and ended up getting married (to someone of the same sex)and having a happy life?
2007-12-20 14:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by phree 5 · 5⤊ 6⤋
Yes,there are christians and non christians who have repented and tried to get married to the opposite sex. Although they try to live a straight lifestyle they can not help but feel different. They know their wants and desires and can not be fullfilled in a situation that they know in their hearts is not real.Not real love,not real reality and just not real in general.It's livng a lie and most people who are homosexual know they are not happy living a lie. Eventually, it comes out the fact that they cannot be fullfilled in a relationship that they know will be a lie. You cannot lie to yourself forever. Your human,you will always have wants and desires. At what cost will you go through to find fullfillment,cheat on your spouse with a same sex? Have children with the opposite sex knowing that you do not fully love this person as a partner and feeling unhappy and tormented>? I'm christian/catholic,but I believe your only hurting yourself by lieing to you and someone else,your creating twice as much havoc by creating and living in a lie,because chances are you can lead to cheating,or having a child(ren) you do not care for or want or even if you do love them or /and want them,it will not be with someone you can share feelings for. I believe you can only do what makes you happy,or else your only commiting more acts against your own religion or beliefs. Happiness can not be forced nor made up. We cannot be what others want us to be and be happy. We cannot force ourselves for to long,to live in a sub-reality,that is not our own reality. So,sure you can go ahead,marry the same sex,have a white pickett fence,have kids a mini van and a big house,but nothing in all of it's normalcy will be normal. None of it. It will all look nice from the outside from onlookers,but on the inside it will be a bomb waiting to explode.
2007-12-20 22:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Himynameis 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, but I know of many people that are bisexual and end up with someone of the opposite sex. I don't know of anyone that was ever truly homosexual that went straight for god, but I have a friend that is a lesbian that has tried and tried and never been able to, so as a result she has just shut herself off from other people and chosen to live a miserable life alone because she can't change her nature. I suppose some of you would count that as a victory.
2007-12-20 22:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jaymi . 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
This isn't due to a religious aspect, but I lived over 15 years in denial of my homosexuality, and I know many people who have denied their same-sex attraction, and I can say in all honesty that none of us had a truly happy life before we came out. Sure, I had a life with happiness, and not too many problems, but in the relationship and lust aspect I was always sad. Living in denial isn't fun.
2007-12-20 22:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by skame 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I myself was once a homosexual. I, on numerous occasions committed disgusting acts of homosexuality. It was an abomination. I would let a hot, steamy, well muscled man put his disgusting, warm, throbbing, love wand into my velvety brown ring. Sometimes I would commit this sin with 3, or even 4 other sinners. I would have a sexy love pickle in each hand, one in my mouth, and one in the back door. We would do this for hours, until I was completely covered in sticky white icing. The I would have then urinate on me until I was clean. Oh the shame and feces.
But now I am cured of my homosexuality. I have a wife and 2 children and I no longer even think about hot, steamy man meat. The idea of being in the middle of a pile of naked man, shining with sweat, feeling their bodies up against mine, and putting them inside of me no longer crosses my mind.
Praise the lord.
2007-12-20 23:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by b 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Actually there is Pastor who will speak about his younger days when he was under the "understanding" that he was gay, he came to know the Lord and was saved after repenting his sins and is now a husband to a woman w/ children and is a pastor.
2007-12-20 22:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer B 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
If a homosexual marries someone of the opposite, he/she's living in denial. And it's both immoral and unfair to their partner. This is where christianity imposes its problem. When you are taught that homosexualtiy is a sin ever since you were a child, you won't be able to accept yourself the way you are. And many christians end up marrying the opposite sex despite being homosexuals. This is one of the harmful things about chritianity.
2007-12-20 22:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 5⤋
I think if you find someone who makes you happy and respects you and you enjoy each others company, people should respect that.
2007-12-24 07:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by kymm r 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it happens everyday. they figure out that is not the life for them, and that they were just experimenting ,because they were just confused. or the dope had them on the wrong path. especially the meth dope . everyone changes with age or an apithany. some come to see true love, and the meaning of life, which is to pro-create and have children to carry on there name and family. god forgives ,society don't but forget society. do what is right. grow old in your rocker with your spouse and watch your children carry-on, can't do that with the same sex. follow your heart and the teachings of christ.
2007-12-20 22:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by charlesmartinez151 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I don't think so. If you are a homosexual and 'repent', I doubt if you will live a 'happy' life if you marry someone of the oposite sex.
2007-12-20 22:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by ღ♥Jess♥ღ 4 · 5⤊ 4⤋