What can I do to show this guy at school that I truely and really like him alot. I think i really love him but i cant tell him that. How can I show this guy that I am really into him and want to be involved in his life. We are friends but I want more than friendship. He is really shy like me.
2007-12-20 13:21:36 · 24 answers · asked by Iceprincess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just talk to him!
-JakeR'sGirl4Ever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-20 13:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
What would you regret the most, never having tried to break through in this, or losing in that attempt?
If you really want to give this a go, be bold - and accept the risk of both not succeeding and losing even his friendship. It's worth the risk if you really feel so strongly about it - he may well feel the same way too. No easy answer though.
Good luck!
2007-12-20 13:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by Right Guard 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, you do not love him. You can't love someone you don't know. You may be infatuated with him which is quite different! The best way to solve this problem is to tell him. Honesty always works best without being coy or playing games. Just come right out and tell him that you really like him and would like for your relationship to go beyond just being friends (which is a very good start). Hopefully he will respond positively - if not at least you aren't wishing for something that will never be!
2007-12-20 13:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Considering he is shy, its up to you to make the first move. Guys can only see whats in front of them, they can't tie two pieces together and figure out the puzzle.So, I suggest you have an open talk with him about your interest.If he is into you, thats great. If not move on.
2007-12-20 13:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by yeshila 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, personally, I would go right up to them, and say, "___crush's name here___, I know we're just friends, but i want to be more. Since we've been friends, i've started to have more than that "brother and sister" vibe for you. I want to be more than friends, so will you go out with me? If not, we can just stay friends, because i still want you in my life."
and whatever happens happens.
if you wanna go the longgggggggggg way,
then wait for your friendship with him to grow.
its a thing called destiny my dear.
2007-12-20 13:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if 'school' means high school, its probably hormones and remember not to shame your family with whatever you decide to do (and people will find out about). if 'school' means college, just tell him you'd like to spend some time with him (new years is a great singles holiday). if you think he's interested, he probably is (we guys arent a big mystery there), let him know he's not going to be shot down if he tries.
2007-12-20 13:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by anon34145 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
flirt with him..a lot. smile at him constantly and stare too. laugh at his jokes, give him most of your attention and try hinting around to him.. like say "oh i want to go to the movies tonight..but i dont have anyone to go with...wink wink wink" try getting his number and texting him or if you have him on msn or yahoo messenger.. ask him if he likes anyone... and see where it takes you..if your both shy..then one of you has to initiate it..and that could be you !! GOOD LUCK!! i hope you get your guy!
2007-12-20 13:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by ♥xChannel. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him.
The worst that can happen is that he won't feel the same way, in which case you just have to move on.
2007-12-20 13:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by Renee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about things. SMILE ALOT !
i have the same problem before, and i think he likes me now =] good luck.
2007-12-20 13:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by . 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just ask him, stop living in tghe ancient times of making the dude do all the work
2007-12-20 13:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Easy solution : just tell him. Dont play games. Just be upfront.
2007-12-20 13:26:33 · answer #11 · answered by Hunney4Bs 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋