Will a lady fall for me if I make her feel good about "herself?" I do not know her well, but she is so cute. I have an extra ticket to a football game. Nervous about asking her to go, since she works with me. However, I have to try right? Let me know what you think.
2007-12-20 11:16:17 · 45 answers · asked by fred g 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be like "what are you doing the day of the game i was wondering if u wanted to come with me.'' if she says is it a date say if you want it to
2007-12-20 11:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by lil_mnm_brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she'd like to go the game with you/\. If she says yes, then, by all means, be yourself & do NOT try to make her feel good about herself; just listen & show her Respect, & keep the bad talking to yourself. If you try too hard, you will come across as a big Phony, & she'll now want to go with you again; if she's normal.
2007-12-20 11:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by srbyn1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl but I do think it's cute that you're nervous about asking her out. She won't fall for you in a day (and if she does, it's probably not a good thing), but if you're genuine in wanting her to feel good about herself, to build self-esteem and self-confidence, then it can be rewarding.
2007-12-20 11:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, but that's no the type of girl you want. If she needs help feeling good about herself, it will begin to wear on you down the road. Better that she work these issues out on her own before becoming involved.
2007-12-20 11:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her, you won't know unless you do! Yes making her feel good about herself is a good starting point, sadly you can't make her fancy you, but at the least she could become a good friend.
Good luck hun
2007-12-20 11:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, why not. BUT, there's much more to it. You have to mean it, and be truthful about it && show her you care. But for now, start off by asking her to go with you to the football game...and let it go on from there<3
goodluck.
2007-12-20 11:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by don't gεt mad, gεt glad™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will work as long as you do not comment on her looks. That is a NO. Usually that gives them the impression that that is all you like. You gotta go deep. Something about her personality. Then she'll go CRAZY. Open doors too. It sounds strange but we love it, its the truth.
2007-12-20 11:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose I'd have to say yes. Make her feel happy and good about herself and you stand a much better chance!
2007-12-20 11:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the generally prefered method of hooking someone. Not sure about football. If she's into football maybe.
2007-12-20 11:19:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most of the time if a guy makes me feel good about myself then i think that it was just a nice jesture but if i was you then i would just go ahed and ask her
2007-12-20 11:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so, if this girl barely knows you she wont "fall" for you, but if you make her feel good enough she will probably like you. its just the matter if she likes you. you should ask her to the game! its always fun.
2007-12-20 11:20:16 · answer #11 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋