I have a boyfriend name Jyron. He respect me and everything but we broke up two times and got back together yesterday. He listen to everything people say and i keep telling him not to worry about it bacause i hear stuff about him to but i dont use it against him. I just cant stop saying yes too him so please help me tell me wat i should do and also alot of boys always trying to break us up because they like me but i dont like them but he still believe that i do.
2007-12-20 11:00:43 · 16 answers · asked by Me of coarse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just talk to him about that and if he trusts you, then he shouldn't care about the stupid rumors! if he doesn't, then dump him and try to move on!
-JakeR'sGirl4Ever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-20 11:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Okay, (where to start)...no matter what you say or do, if there's no trust between you, the relationship will fail. It's a shame, too because people get a kick out of running back and forth spreading rumors. Unfortunately, we usually don't realize this until it has cost us dearly. (I lost my first real girlfriend to listening to the fellas...I confronted her on some crap they said [trying to be all jealous and hard], and she flipped the script on me and broke me down!) I have regretted that idiotic moment ever since. Hopefully your situation won't come to that...but if it helps, let him read this. If that doesn't shake him up, nothing will. Most of the time your boys will spread rumors on your girl just so they can test the waters and see if they can get with her. It occurs to you only after you see him walking down the street with her, and she's explaining to him what a fool you were...(that's one of those "in your face" moments I highly recommend sparing yourself if you can.) This doesn't even have to happen. Learn to keep your relationship strictly between you two; and learn that truth now rather than later. (You'll be much happier). Good luck.
P.S.
That's not cool, Fuzz!
2007-12-20 19:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have already broke up with him twice, then you already know what the right thing to do here is. The heart can be a tricky and very difficult thing to deal with and understand. That doesn't change no matter how old you are. I am guessing that you are still very young, and i want to warn you that if you keep on with this type of behavior with dating that it will become a vicious cycle that will become more and more difficult to break. I speak from experience. If this guy is constantly accusing you of liking other guys and wanting to be with them, then it means that he is insecure with himself and who he is, and is not in a healthy enough state of mind to be in a relationship with anyone. You will be doing him or yourself no favors by condoning this behavior. Remember that as long as you stay with him and continue to allow this, he has no reason to change. I mean, why change when you already have what you want? The best thing you can do for him and ESPECIALLY yourself, is to end this and distance yourself from him. You should value yourself, and know that you deserve what you want.
2007-12-20 20:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jennie C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Take an english writing/grammar class
2. Quit doing the things that he is "using against you"
3. Why are you with someone who is doing things that you could use against him?
4. Grow up
2007-12-20 19:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he doesnt belive you, leave him its as easy as that. or make sure that no one talks about you to him by putting him in a sound proof Bubble that can only hear your voice lol.
Really just try to get him to trust you more.
2007-12-20 19:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have been through that and he is with another gurl today after dating mannnnnnny of times haha but still if u feel like this and he puts u through this then i think u should call it off maybe see diffrent ppl and see where u end up and if u just wanna be with each other after that then uk wat u need to do!
2007-12-20 19:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by souljagurl 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you need to tell him u love him and only him and if he doesnt believe u!!say well if u want to be with me u have to trust me cuz thats wat relationships are all about trust!!!you need to tell him to hear ur side of the story!!just let him know how u fee!!!
good luck
2007-12-20 19:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if he is too unsecure u would have to let him go.. as for someone who gets in the way like his friends... just to get wid u .. dont take em lightly .. cuz they might only use u..
2007-12-20 19:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by striker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him...iif he cant stick wid u once he can't another so find someone who cares enough about u to stay forever
2007-12-20 19:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if there is trust issues, your probably too young nd shouldnt be in a relationship anyways
2007-12-20 19:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by hi* 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋