this girl i've had a crush on for a long time broke up with her boyfriend who was a complete jerk to her. they were going to get married, but something happened, and he really doesn't like her. we know each other and he found out i like her and he was begging me for two days to go out with her so she would stop bothering her. he would call her stuff like physco and stuff behind her back. so me and the girl went out, then we break up because of what he did to her, and she wasn't ready for a relationship. then when she needed a ride from school, which i didn't have a class that day, i said i would pick her up. she said later that she didn't need a ride because her ex would pick her up. she was smiling when she said this. then i said i thought they hated each other and she said she never said that. now they are getting back together and i still really like her. my question is how the hell could she go back to him after all that?
p.s.- she doesn't know about the stuff he said to me
2007-12-20 10:35:31 · 6 answers · asked by footballhero63 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are both 18
2007-12-20 10:44:18 · update #1
One answer: She's young. She is most likely, young & also naive. Let her go back & be beaten down by just one more of the verbally (yet oddly enough.. attractive?) men who spot out young & immature women as their prey. She'll maybe, POSSIBLY & eventually learn a lesson from her mistakes & bad taste in men. This is the sad & pathetic truth of yet another sob story love has to offer. She'll one day run back to you knowing that you were the one she not only needed, but also wanted. :) It's harsh, but it happens everyday.
2007-12-20 10:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could always tell her what he said about her, but based on what you said about her I don't think that she would believe you. She went back to him because she wanted to. Why would he take her back when he went through all that trouble to get you to go out with her. This probably isn't what you want to hear but I don't know if getting mixed up with this girl is a good idea. It doesn't seem like she knows what she wants.
2007-12-20 18:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by nena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they might have talked it over and got back to gather. Or he could of said something that made her not mad there a thousand reasons why but all i can tell you is move on i mean God has some one better for you out there
2007-12-20 18:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by Briana O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your feelings towards her and say to her what her ex said about her. I think that she likes him.
-JakeR'sGirl4Ever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-20 18:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her how you feel about her and tell her the stuff this guy is saying about her.
2007-12-20 18:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by broken</3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes crazy to go back with him that treats her like ****
u sound really nic explain the situation to her and see wat happens
2007-12-20 18:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by princessuknowit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋