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Talk about me behind my back constantly.

I just heard them talking about me upstairs and laughing.
And now i'm crying.

My older sister tends to always talk about me with my younger brother. and she's 21 and he's 13.
They always laugh and talk about it.
and i'm feeling depressed now.

What should i do?

2007-12-20 10:35:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

6 answers

dont worry calm down. i have 2 brothers and a sister and they always talk about me all the time! it gets very annoying. and not only my siblings my PARENTS! i think you should, well i do this, just be in my room for a while untill everyone is wondering where you are and stuff. and ask them when they come looking for you. why they were talking about you and that it really hurt your feelings. and like talk to them. let them know that it really upsets you.

2007-12-20 10:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Unfortunately you're the middle child!!

Do you ever talk about your sister or your brother with the other one?

honestly, don't let it get to you. Its just what brothers and sisters do. with 3 kids someone always gets left out.

If I were you I'd approach them both together and very firmly tel them you don't like them talking about you as its hurtful, they are your borther and sister,you expect love and support not nasty comments.

Be prepared to stick up for yourself.

But just try to remember they probably don't mean anything by it, it really is just what brothers and sisters do. believe me i've been there, i think we all have.

2007-12-20 18:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Confront them, immediately. I have an older sister and younger brother too. March upstairs and ask why? Don't be confrontational about it... but you deserve some answers. Sorry girl.

2007-12-20 18:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by Just Tryin' to Help 4 · 2 0

Sugar ignore them.... It isn't worth the bad feelings.

And let me say this... my mother in law always thought everyone in the family talked about her. Yeah sometimes we did, but not ALL the time. In fact there were times that she just "knew" we were talking about her and weren't...... so you may just be thinking they are when they aren't.

2007-12-20 18:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0 0

FORGET about them...but if it really hurts you that bad maybe you should confront them and let them know how them talking about you makes you feel....but they could just be jealous of you....

2007-12-20 18:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by Rinna J 1 · 0 0

dont mind them theyre just jealous of you siblings are just annoying but they always got your back

2007-12-20 18:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by itsmee(: 2 · 1 0

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