I haven't had a date in a while and haven't had that many dates ever, and I'm 24 which is just too embarrassing to come to terms with. I'm really good at some parts of it, I'm good at approaching women anywhere, and get their numbers but it usually rarely goes beyond that and it's hard not to feel a sense of desperation when you hit a dry streak. I recently wanted a job really badly and now i have that and i feel like my social life is well in place, so there's not much else to think about but my romantic failures. For example, there's this girl who I met months ago in a sports bar who I hit it off with and we exchanged #s. She's really friendly and once after that i felt like the way she approached me after that there was a spark. I go to school on different campus than her so haven't seen her since. Problem is I sometimes IM her and except for one time, she doesn't respond, and i know i have to play it cool, but i wish i could let her know what i'm about beyond just saying hi on IM
2007-12-20 10:33:40 · 3 answers · asked by sophomrecritic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To respond to these people, I don't have her number. Obviously, if i had her number I'd do that. I don't really have any outlet other than the IM and IMing her repeatedly would make me look desperate, I think
2007-12-20 10:46:11 · update #1
Perhaps you could IM and ask for her number or give her yours and then talk with her?
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2007-12-28 05:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by fitzovich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of IMing her, call her via cell phone and ask her on a date. Get to know her, and let her get to know you. Things will progress from there if she's also attracted to you.
2007-12-20 10:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well instead of IM call her and see wats going on
2007-12-20 10:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by princessuknowit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋