Im really scared for my sistr! She doesnt understand wat shes doing to herself!?

Question

My sistr stole my bf (his name's Jesse) now they r havin unprotected sex! Im scared shes gonna get pregnant! And shes a totally difrent person now. Wenevr shes around Jesse, shes a total ***** to me. Today, she punchd me in the leg on a pressure point lyk 3 times and evry time i fell in the floor cuz it hurt so bad and i couldnt feel my leg and her and jesse just laughd at me. Then aftr school, my sistr was givin jesse a ride home and right before i got in her truck, she drove off and left me at the school (it was REALLY cold and my jacket was already in her truck)! She finally came back and got me and they laughd at me all the way home. Im scared for her, cuz i kno that wen she gets pregnant, hes gonna dump her and nevr talk to her again. She doesnt believe me, but iv known him for 4 yrs and thats how he is! My mom's tried to talk to her but she doesnt listen to my mom, no mattr wat my mom does, she insists on acting lyk an idiot! Iv tried to talk to her, but she denies that shes done

anything bad to me! Plz tell me wat to do! TALKING TO HER DOESNT HELP SO DONT TELL ME TO TALK TO HER!

Shes 16, im 14, and so is her bf. And those of u tellin me that my mom isnt doin enough, she is doin all she can! My mom cries lyk evrynight cuz she has done all she can! She has taken her phone, her car, all the stuff out of her room, she tried talkin to my sistr's bf's parents. Nothing works!

Ok ppl. Acting lyk im a freakin 3 y.o. wont help her stop havin sex ok? Thatll just get me punchd. So stop tellin me to do all this stupid crap that doesnt even make sense.

And lyin to her bout gettin pregnant wont help eithr. Thatll just make her call me a stupid whore. Yall r retarded!

READ THE WHOLE FREAKIN QUESTION PEOPLE! SHES STUBBORN! SHE WONT LISTEN TO MY MOM OR ANY1 ELSE FOR THAT MATTER! OMG!

Just cuz im worried about my sistr gettin pregnant means im jealous? Ur an idiot.

Answer 1

coner jesse and kick f**k out of him or get som ppl 2 knock him out he sounds like a proper d**khead if i new u id knock him out for u thts the best way seeing talking wont work...

Answer 2

If she insists on acting like an idiot let her act like one! Just ignore the way she treats you, stop talking to her for a while and let her find another victim to pick on. Did you say she stole your boyfriend from you? Are you okay with that? She is your sister so you have to love her no matter what, but do not become her punching bag. I would just ignore her for a while and not pay attention to her drama, when she sees she doesnt have an audience anymore she might act a little nicer. Let your parents talk to her about safe sex and the consequences of getting pregnant at a young age, it is their job to teach her these things not you! Im sorry you are dealing with this, just ignore her for a while and she will start to miss you and treat you better! Good luck with everything!

Answer 3

I think you should get a hold of some of her friends and get them to talk to some sense into her. You also need to talk to Jesse. Even though this sounds a bit ''childish,'' your mom should go over his house and talk his mother. It's all for the sake of your sister, and it's better than getting her pregnant. If anything, send her on the Maury show!


I wasn't being that serious about the last part, but hey, whatever you want.

Answer 4

I am sorry to read your situation. Your sister sounds like someone who is out of control and really cruel to you (she may be feeling guilty about taking your BF) but should not be allowed, by you and your Mom, to keep up her treatment of you. Her sex life and the consequences are not going to be your problem, even if she is your sister, so let your Mom deal with that. So, please find other ways to get home and stop hanging out around your sister until she remembers who you are... not the enemy. Go back to your own life and hang with your friends or try and make some new ones.

Answer 5

Just go up to her in a confident way, and say, "You know what? You've been acting like a real Bi**h lately. I know what you've been doing with Jesse, and I don't have a problem with it. But unless you're on the pill, then you're in trouble. And when you're pregnant, don't say I didn't warn you. I know Jesse, and what games he can play... But seriously, it's your life. Go ruin it with a teenage pregnancy if that's what you /really/ want to do."

The point is, she's going to end up ruining her life. Just tell her so. Don't even try to argue, either. Just smile kindly, and walk away. Really, just stating the facts and being confident is the way to go. ;) I hope it works. And for her sake, I hope they break up.

Answer 6

The next time she hits you call the police get evidence she is abusing you, i know she is your sister but that its also consider domestic violence. If she gets pregnant its her problem i know it sounds mean but sometimes people don't understand until something bad happens to them. Maye she is on The pill or something, i will be more worried about a STD. I believe that even when you are family you have to earn the respect of your loved ones. Take some action now or you will never have a chance to get a life for yourself. REMEMBER SHE IS NOT YOUR DAUGHTER!!! You already talked to her once and tried to help her. You cant help someone that does not want to be helped.

Answer 7

Well i dont know what to say. If your parents cant control her... then maybe she needs professional help. Btw its hard to understand your situation without ages in here. If you guys are under 18 then this is very serious. If shes over 18 then its different. It is her choice and if thats what she really wants then there isn't much you can do about it.

Answer 8

That's awful! Avoid her. Ignore her. Make her feel like she's missing out on herself and nice memories. Just don't focus on it. Act as if it's not cool. Know what I mean? She's going to be bored soon, sex is like taht. Can't have too much at once. Punch her back. Do anything neccessary to just make her back off. I hope everything turns out for you and your sister! Good luck!

Answer 9

Unfortunately, you have to let her live and learn. It is her life to mess up, not yours. and I don't mean that in a bad way. by you guys hounding her and telling her what to do, it only makes her want to do it all the more. especially since you dated him first. you are probably the last person she wants to hear from. dont do things with her anymore and when he is there then you should some how avoid them. Act like you don't care and trust me that will bother them.

Answer 10

Wow. I dont know what to do, but:

1. Try reason.
2. Try ignore.
3. Try losing your temper
4. Try writing something like a "my sister is a totally different person now" on microsoft word on your comp. and print it out and paste it on your door. Use a lot of soft and gentle words like "She is not like she was. She doesnt joke around with me anymore, and she is getting so slutty. I dont like that. I hope that changes. "and"she doesnt know what is for her own good anymore. She's not the person she used to be." Paste it on her door and wall and make it haunt her forever. Paste it in the bathroom too and on her way to school.
5. if that doesnt work try awarding it.


Also is your sister older or younger?

Answer 11

I would just ignore her a** and take the bus home ya it sucks but at least you know your going home and staying warmer than out side and when she is around just leave to room and just act like she is not even there. When she hits you hit her back as hard as you can.