ok here's the whole story... well this guy in my class is really cute. and we have talked before and all. and he told me that he didn't have a girlfriend. and he also said that he wants to do all of this stuff to me (sexually). so i said ok i do too. then the next day when im in my car about to leave i see him making out with this other girl... so how should i handle this when i see him tomorrow?
A. forget about him and look for a new guy
B. tell him what i saw
C. ignor him
D. talk to him only as friends
thanks!
2007-12-20 09:37:24 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in this order:
B, A, C................
you dont want a liar as a friend
2007-12-20 09:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by The WingHunter 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He only wants one thing. I would definitely stay away from him or anyone who is wanting to do stuff sexually. Don't do that just because someone is cute.
Getting a STD is not cute. I have HPV and it is a virus that I will forever have. He can have something that you do not want, especially if you have already caught him making out with another girl. There are many diseases, plus you can get pregnant. Are you ready for that kind of responsibilty? It is very hard to tell the next guy that you have a STD. Please think first.
Tell him, you are glad you saw him making out with someone else. You are not into that and you do Not want to hear any excuses as to why he did it or won't do it again, etc.... I wouldn't be friends either since you have a thing for him. He might talk you into it. Please don't rush into a physical relationship with anyone. REALLY get to know someone before you even date.
2007-12-20 09:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't own him. you've never been on a date. you have no claim to him.
if you want to love on him and have some fun, then go for it with a condom, but it doesn't sound like ya'll are talking about exchanging christmas gifts or meeting the folks, so he may be attracted to and having sex with other women who are also not his exclusive girlfriends.
However, it sounds like his definition of girlfriend and mine and yours definition of girlfriend are pretty different.
It sounds like he was playing you.
I wouldn't say anything and I wouldn't hook up and I would approach him and ask him for some notes the next time you see him making out with her. Then go up and write your phone number on his hand and say really sexy. "I can't wait for this weekend" and stroke his chin with your index finger. If the other girl flips out. You know that he was playing you both. Problem solved.
if she just sits there then everyone (except maybe you) is cool withthe situation. Either way it will be fun to see how they both react. I wish I could see the reaction:)
If she shoots you a flirtatous look then its on.
good luck,
2007-12-20 09:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by ivorytower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's obvious he only wanted to get in your pants. Which I assume you were going to let him since you two were talking about doing sexual things with one another. He's a dogg and will mess with other girls including you at the same time. If that bothers you then the answer would be "A"
2007-12-20 09:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A and C because guys dont get hints at all so dont be just friends like letter D and if you confront him he might just shrug it off and not really listen to what your really trying to say. Just get rid of him because hes not worth it!
2007-12-20 11:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by alyssaಌ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as if he is ummm rather loose with his affections if you get my drift? I would just forget him and look for a new guy and talk to him only as friends tell him to knock off the sexual innuendos if he wants to have you as a friend.
2007-12-20 09:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by katklass11 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should look for a new guy.
And just a little advice for the future, when you met a guy and he says he wants to do all those things to you, he is pretty much looking to get into your pants.
2007-12-20 09:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i pick A, my advice would be not to even start getting involved with a player like that, you will end up being realllyy hurt, did you end up doing sexual things with him?
I would break it off right away and move on
- hope this helps :]
2007-12-20 09:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to talk to him wit a 1 on 1 chat!
srt things out.
u have 2 tel him wot u saw
and tell him u DO only want to be friends now.
DONT IGNORE HIM
2007-12-20 09:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A. but don't go looking for a new guy, just smile, be happy and he will find you. My cell no is 901-333-xxxx LOL
2007-12-20 09:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A- im pretty sure you could do way better then him... You could find a better guy who will treat you like a princess
2007-12-20 09:41:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋