Well I was wondering what do yall think? Is it possible to love two people at once? And I mean the feeling not the action...
2007-12-20 09:24:56 · 35 answers · asked by Cam73ghs73 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me elaborate some. I am very shy, but there are two girls that I know and I feel as if I love them both and almost as if I am torn between them but both of them are in a relationship. And let me say again I mean the FEELING of love not the ACTION of making love for all of you that are misunderstanding...
2007-12-20 09:36:51 · update #1
Yes, I personally think it is possible. I am in love with two people also and I am also torn. I feel that if I look deep down in my heart that I can figure out which one my heart prefers and which one is just a heavy crush. However I could just be in love with being in love. Think about it. Just go with which one your heart feels is personally drawn to. Since they are both in a relationahip then once you figure out which one is right for you and if you really love her then just wait and if she knows how you feel she will come to you. I am not saying wait forever and waste your time waiting but just think about it. I hoped I helped you.....but if I confused you even more then I am sorry.
2007-12-20 11:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by andrewscutemom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't personally think it's possible but at the moment I still love my ex as it's only been just over a month and should someone else capture my interest and I develop feelings for them and my ex come back on the scene I could see how that would be difficult and how I could have feelings for 2 people..
2007-12-20 09:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by Mellie Moo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You absolutely can love two people at the the same time. I have been in love with two different people at the same time and it was one of the most dramatic, confusing, hurtful, things I have ever felt. You dont know who you want to be with. While you are with one you are thinking about the other and vice versa. I didnt feel more love for one than the other so I was stuck right in the middle. And It hurt me not knowing who I wanted to be with and it killed me not being able to be with either of them while thinking about the other one. And it was hurtfull to tthem too knowing that I loved someone eles as well as them.
2007-12-20 09:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by ProudSexySouthernGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I was thinking about the action only.
No, you can only truely love ONE. Once you love a second, you realize that maybe the love for the first one isn't there anymore. It typically takes some time to resolve this, because you are screwed up.
2007-12-20 09:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's definately possible. However in a situation like this, STAY SINGLE. My boyfriend had a crush on me and my best friend both, and I didn't know it and i really got hurt. Don't do that to the peope you love. Once you are completely over your feelings for one person, then act on it--not before. That doesn't mean when you know who you like best. It means when you have feelings ONLY for that one person.
2007-12-20 09:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely
2007-12-20 09:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possibly to love 2 people at once. It is up to you whether you act on it or not. If you truly love someone you are able to see the difference between love and lust.
2007-12-20 09:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by bonstermonster20 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you open with both of them and allow other people to love them intimately as well. If you don't, then your relationships are not about love, but instead are about your need to control.
2007-12-20 09:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible to love many people at once. People are different in many ways and unique in many ways.
There are many ways to the heart.
2007-12-20 09:29:07 · answer #9 · answered by Davey Boy Smith #1 Fan- VACATION 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes i do believe that it is possible to love two people at once. but be careful, because it looks like someone is about to get their heartbroken.
2007-12-20 09:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by ClevelandIndiansFan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋