Me and this guy have been friends for like 4 years and he is starting to be interested in me like as a girlfriend. And I can picture myself with him and grow old with him, I am a freshman. Could the relationship last until we are old enough to get married?
2007-12-20 08:59:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it can.
2007-12-20 09:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by sddq_nn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask this person If he feels the same connection as you. If he does,then anything is possible even though your just a freshman. Follow your heart. I did and I've been married for almost 9 years to the woman that I once pictured myself growing old with. Good Luck!
2007-12-20 17:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by camtcb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, you're going to hear this a lot, you're going to get sick of it, and you're not going to put any stock in it, but let me just tell you that it's better not to even start thinking of marriage yet. Marriage isn't like in the movies. It's not just a lot of romance and love and whatever else. It's work. It's commitment- 24/7. So yeah, I think you should totally go for a relationship if that's what you want, but don't do it just because you think that you will get married to him.
2007-12-20 17:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it could, but don't worry about that right now. Just enjoy each other for each new moment and then if you get sick of each other enjoy breaking up lol. If you have these kind of plans in your head it will make it harder if things go bad and you might hold on to something that isn't good for either of you just because you have this kind of distorted reality.
2007-12-20 17:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it can last time is depend on how both of you feel about each other and willing to work hard at it. sometime its hard and you want to give up. If the two of you want it to last for a very long time, i suggest that the both of you work at it.
2007-12-20 17:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe but don't count on it u guys are young and are going to fight about dumb stuff and 5 minutes u won't even remember what the fight was about and u guys might start to get tired of each other and may want to be with someone new .
2007-12-20 17:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by sweethoney9079 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of coarse. I am 4 years in relationship and we are now living together , meanwhile going to college
2007-12-20 17:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by SELMA S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends does it matter cuz theres plenty of guys out there. if u made it yes. but very unlikely. Plz don't get married young.
2007-12-20 17:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by confussed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if both of you are determined and don't loose focus or look somewhere else it might work my sister married her first boyfriend and they lasted for a long time.
2007-12-20 17:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure but only if you are both open and 100% honest with each other !
2007-12-20 17:04:55 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to say. you should look at your motivation for liking him. why do you like him? if you like him for superficial reasons like looks or popularity then it probably won't last, but if you like him for guanine reasons like his character then it might last. it is hard to say though. some do and some don't.
2007-12-20 17:07:13 · answer #11 · answered by User 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋