Basically she was interested in me and asked for my number one night when i was out. We've since had a date but i realised i just dont fancy her even though she's a very nice girl. I'm not used to having a girl like me like this so for me it's a big deal to have a date at all! I'd really like a girlfriend but i think i'd be leading her on if i see her again. But if i dont then who knows how long it'll be before someone else takes an interest in me?! help
2007-12-20 08:59:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leading someone on isn't fair and it's disrespectful. You should be straight with her. Don't say you want to be friends if you don't. Don't say you want to talk, mail, chat if you don't. Honesty is the best policy. Since she's a very nice girl, i'm sure she'll understand and appreciate you being honest with her. You'll meet the right girl when you least expect it
2007-12-20 09:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by moonworshipper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You would be abusing her. Would you want a girl to abuse you? Take her out for a coke and have a straight up talk and tell her how you feel. Look her in the eye and tell her what you said about her being a very nice girl but the two of you are not on the same wave length.
2007-12-20 09:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by birdman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont you fancy her a tiny bit? if shes a nice girl she dosnt deserve to be led on does she? it might be nice to have trhe atention but think how she will feel after its ended..sometimes people dont fancy each other at first but as they get to know them they do, if you know you will never fancy her then dont mess her around
2007-12-20 09:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes, it will prepare you for a good relationship in the future, but be careful not to hurt her feelings
2007-12-20 09:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the point of dating her again if you don't think of her in that waY?
2007-12-20 09:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Music Addict ♪♫ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe me...the relationship won't work out if you're not interested in her. and by doing that you're just settle for something less than what u want and desire
2007-12-20 09:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont bother wasting her time.
2007-12-20 09:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by tomato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be her friend, and let her know that you enjoy her company but just as a friend.
2007-12-20 09:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by louise d 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋