I was so excited because my older brothers were coming home from college. But all they do is iratate me! They had got lunch and didnt get me anything then they were like wow that sucks. Then my mom had given them money to get something to eat. And they made me wait until 7pm until they went and got it. I was straving. The whole time they kept singing songs about food and good it was to make me mad. Then today I had to ring a bell for salvation army. They went to give me a hug before I went then they go well I hope you get frostbite Ash. Then last night I was watching tv and they kept bouncing nerf balls off my head until I started screaming at them. Why are they so mean to me? What have I ever done to them? I was so excited to see them and all they do is make fun of me. Is there a way I could get them back?
2007-12-20 08:53:34 · 11 answers · asked by Ashely85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
For better or worse, they sound like regular immature BOYS. This is how boys show that they like you. They tease you and be mean and throw stuff at you. Honestly, they wouldn't be acting this way if they weren't crazy about you. I can understand how you don't appreciate it, though!
Perhaps one of the best ways to stop this, at least in younger boys (and they ARE acting younger) is this: Whenever they do one of these annoying things, say "That's how little boys ARE! If they like a girl, they are always mean to her! Everybody knows that. Why do I have to have brothers that like me?" or something to that effect. Always try to say this in front of other people, especially their friends. They will deny it of course, because they are immature, so you will have to keep repeating it.
If they don't want to admit that they like you, they will have to stop annoying you. If they do admit it, they will probably stop annoying you so much too.
Oh, and develop your sense of humor! You'll need it!
2007-12-20 09:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boys are stupid. There is nothing you can do about it. My brother was this way until he started having kids. He still can be a pain once in a while but it is a lot better.
Try ignoring them. They want you to react. If you don't then they won't get what they want.
Or make yourself start crying. That usually makes guys feel uncomfortable and bad.
2007-12-20 08:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
ok so i have a younger bro and an older one. there the same as your brothers im also a girl. so heres what i figured out they(brothers) try to make you mad because 1. they think its funny or 2. because you are a girl they dont know how to talk to you so they treat you like one of the guys. i have tried ignoring them for a while and they stop bugging me. good luck!
2007-12-20 08:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by Music_freak 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
because there stupid . i have a little brother and an older brother . when i got payback on my older brother it was with my dogs help i pretended like i was going to hug him and when he was about to hug me i pushed him a pile of my dogs business . lets just say i didnt have any problem with him for a while . he was very mad though .
2007-12-20 09:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by ashleigh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, pretty gay
im a big brother and i do have a little brother and i always seem to enjoy myself annoying him...lol
life is like that, big brothers are mean sometimes i cant disagree with it..lol
try having some good time with them
*hugs
2007-12-20 08:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
That's how older brothers show affection. I am one. We feel this unexplainable urge to toughen the others and maintain our superiority...think of it like the biggest dog of the litter...
They do love you, it all sounds like innocent teasing...
You should prank them back with a hot sauce cup-cake!
-AND STASH THE MILK!
2007-12-20 08:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
It's our job to be mean.
If you want to get back at them, laugh it off, don't let it get to you. If it does, DON'T LET IT SHOW
Do NOT ever use tears, it only excites us.....like blood to a Shark, we see tears, we start circling & going into a feeding frenzy!
2007-12-20 08:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by DreadSmurf 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
because us older brothers were born first, and have the right right to be mean
2007-12-20 08:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by Drew 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
hun thats how older brothers are. just learn to love it...so what they pick on you? get over it
2007-12-20 08:57:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Your day will come, be patient.
2007-12-20 08:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by joe 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋