ok i been here before lol so my mom took a test?

Question

my mom had to take a test to see if she had cancer or not and i'am freaking out because i'am so scared if she has cancer i will start crying so hard i dont want to think she does because she is my mom and i love here so much i would never want anything to happen to her if anybody has any advice on how i can control freaking out and being scared please help i'am at a time in need

Answer 1

Its normal to freak out and there really isn't any good reason to control it - this is really scary. Right now, your mom has not been diagnosed with cancer, so no real worries yet. If she is diagnosed with cancer, many cancers are nearly 100% curable, so the type of cancer might not be dangerous. If she does have a dangerous form, the odds of beating it are good if its caught early. Just give you mom support any way you can - that's the best anyone can do.

Answer 2

Think about it this way. Your freaking out right now won't not make her have cancer. Neither will a wait and see attitude. Why not try the later its more peaceful.
The time will come when you will know yes or no. Even cancer can be a blessing. My best friend had it. It was difficult, but she says she is thankful now for having had it. It was a blessing in the end. It is through the trails in life that we grow the most. They add depth and substance to our lives.

Even if the worst possible happens and you Mother would die from it. What a blessing to have time to spend knowing the end is near. One day we all will face death, not all have the benefit of having time to prepare for it.

I hope you Mum doesn't have cancer, but even if she does it's not the end of the world, especially if you have faith in God.
Now would be a good time to start a relationship with him if you don't already know him. His peace eternal.

Answer 3

Don't be afraid of showing your natural emotions. You are a very loving daughter and your reaction, should it be cancer, will be natural. I am certain that Mom will understand because, she too, will have a lot on her mind and her heart.

So, cry if you need to but, then, you need to stop and begin living life as normal because that is what Mom would most like to see.

Meanwhile, if you wish, you could e-mail me with only Mom's first name and I will pray (and I suggest you as well) for her and declare that, in the name of Jesus, no cancer will attach itself to her body because you and your family will have Mom until God says it is time (the Bible says we've all been given at least 70 years, 80 and beyond if we are healthy)

Blessings.

Answer 4

I lost my mother to lymphatic cancer 17 years ago this month. I do miss her, I do remember how terrified I was when she was diagnosed and I will always see her in the mirror and in my children.
Mortality is something we all face my dear, and I'm soo sorry you are going through this during the holidays which are a stress anyway. I can tell you that your fear is normal and if you really really want your mother to know how you feel, tell her, talk to her, she's here now, do not spend another moment fretting over "what if", enjoy the time you HAVE together now!
She's your best friend!