There's this shy attractive, skater punkish boy in my German class. He always seems to watch me, and look in my direction whenever I talk. I've heard he isn't a people person and has bad history with his father. Anyways, so I started to talk to him. We became good aquaintances.
I asked him if I could look at his ipod. He gave me a sheepish smile and I was surprised to see he was listening to Frank Sinatra fly me to the moon. He looks at my breasts a lot though, I mean stares. And if he did happen to like me, would it be for my body?
2007-12-20 07:37:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shy guys like boobs too.
2007-12-20 07:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by irish_jimmy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The novelty will wear off. He may have never met a girl with a figure like yours. Don't know if you are uncomfortable with your size or you are perfect in that Natalie Portman kind of way. Either way, they are eye candy but how long can you live on snickers? Sounds like he has some depth to his soul if he's listening to Frank.
Could be that he has been emasculated by his abusive father and is compensating by your mere presence in his life. I hate to say this may continue for you depending on how your present yourself. Looking back it was an awakening to a new world. Now, a good set of eyes will take the weight off of my back. Treat him gently...and make sure you feel safe, aways. You were not born to suffer his suggestion.
So if the Sinatra thing is not compelling and you don't feel the need to pursue things further the ball is in your court. Kindly remind him that you have eyes--jokingly. If he liked you the short term attraction is your body, if he can express love for you: it's you he happens to like! Good luck!
2007-12-20 17:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by freeyourmind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys cant really help staring. If they can, the're gay. Thats cool that he was listening the Frank Sinatra... but he sounds nice so I woulnd't let his obession with your boobs turn you away. He might like your body but that is hard to base a relationship off of, so if you have fun flirting or being around each other, maybe there's something there (besides your boobs).
2007-12-20 07:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by Elle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I hate to break this news to you, but every guy stares at your boobs ( some guys will talk to them too..) Some are just more discreat than others.. And the bigger your boobs are, the longer and harder the stare...
So get used to it, when you catch him say "Hey, I'm up here.."
and good luck to you( He's probably a nice guy..)
2007-12-20 07:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess is he likes you and the fact that you are friends. If he likes your body too take that as a compliment! Isn't it okay for a guy to like your body?
2007-12-20 07:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes. like sometimes i catch guys looking at my chest and it makes me want to hide them. i am not a big fan of boobs like girls who really want them so it kind of annoyes me
2016-05-25 04:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by virgina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just a bit immature and doesn't know how to relate well to the opposite sex yet.
2007-12-20 07:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by brews 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boobs are the center of a womans body. hell i even look at them!
2007-12-20 07:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by eesseeee 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋