My parents left the catholic church long ago, thankfuly God brought me back this past spring. My parents weren't too happy when I told them but they have been warming up since then. God told me that I need to bring them back to His church, thats why He woulnt let me stay on campus over break :( so I've been working very hard and I can see it happening. Sadly my childhood and memories with my parents is a part of me that darkness has ahold of. I am trying to let the light shine through but its hard work. So I still dislike my parents.
One of my goals is to invite them to attend Christmas Eve Mass with me, but I dunno how to bring it up. Any suggestions?
2007-12-20 06:24:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Just do it, and leave the rest in Gods hands. Remember what Father Pacwa on EWTN says, "God is management. We're just in sales."
2007-12-20 06:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
First, you have to forgive them. They are your parents and you cannot stay in that state of "dislike". It is wrong. God said, you must honour your mother and father so that you days on this earth may be long. He did not say you had to agree with them.
Then, simply ask them! They may surprise you with a "Yes" if they truly are warming up. If they are not ready as yet, still be good to them and pray that they don't wait till it's too late to make the trip back.
2007-12-20 06:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you and your parents ever go to Christmas Eve Mass? If so, remind them that you have done it in hte past and would like to go again as a family.
If not, just tell them that you are going to be going to Christmas Eve Mass and it would really make the holiday special and it would make you happy if they would come with you.
2007-12-20 10:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sldgman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it....
"Hey, Mom and Dad- what are your plans for Christmas Eve?... Would you like to come to Midnight (or whatever) Mass with me?"
One suggestion- if they decline, don't get upset. It will take time for their hearts to soften. Just keep being their loving and supportive child, and keep your faith strong.
Edit--
NewCatholic has a great suggestion- to pray. God loves you and your parents. He can and will help if you ask.
2007-12-20 06:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a Protestant, but I love Christmas Eve Mass..Just ask! There is nothing that is more beautiful or warming than a great Christmas Eve Mass..Tell them I said so.;)
2007-12-20 06:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by PROBLEM 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How about you just ask them to go for you and "Old times sake"?
I would say to not push to hard, plant the seed and let the Holy Spirit do the rest.
Remember to Pray for them!
Peace, and may God Bless your Search!
2007-12-20 06:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by C 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Just ask God for you to find the right time and the right way to tell them. Follow your heart. Good Luck!
2007-12-20 06:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer situation. Many non-Catholics attend Mass at Christmas and Easter. they do no longer assume definitely everyone to nicely known what to do. do merely what others do different than for going forward for communion. it somewhat is merely for church individuals in good status. additionally, many bow down on one knee till now going into the pew as an indication of admire for the presence of Jesus they have self assurance is there in the golden (in many cases), super case on the front of the church. Pausing (yet no longer kneeling) till now getting into the pew is respectful of their thoughts devoid of exhibiting attractiveness of their ideals. by ability of how, in the journey that your relationship will become severe and he needs to stay Catholic, you will would desire to transform till now marriage and promise to strengthen your little ones in the Catholic faith.
2016-10-09 00:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you learn to like your parents again and do things without a religious agenda attached to them first. If you bond with your parents and you invite them to church say next year they might feel that you are genuine and that you just want to share the experience with them and that you're not trying to convert them which is what you sound like you're trying to do.
2007-12-20 06:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by NOJ 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Ask them outright and if they say no - drop it. Here's the thing -- they obviously left the church for a reason. You might be better off accepting that and moving on.
2007-12-20 06:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by swordarkeereon 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋