Some People Say I Won Some Say I lose. The problem is when i get off of suspenion people are going to be saying hahah you got beat up , you dont know how to fight and a whole bunch of mess Should i not say one word the whole day of school what should i do i asked before and people said just ignore them but if i ignore them they are going to keep saying it and the dude i got in a fight with is talking about me bad on his myspace what should i do
2007-12-20 05:56:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sports ➔ Martial Arts
I've been there my friend. Just tell people you lost. You get out of the suspension. Plus if some _______'s think you can't fight who cares. If you won then your friends will know that and it'll also get the other guy off your back.
If he says anything about having beaten you a really dirty thing to do is stick out your hand for a handshake and go "Yeah, you beat me, and I lost, nice fight." Then if he gloats he looks like an asshole and if he shakes your hand or agrees then you both walk away with your honor in tact.
Peace can be a weapon too ;)
2007-12-20 07:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you fight, you will get hurt and you will lose. It doesn't take a martial artist to tell you fighting hurts for everyone. No one really wins in a fight. Especially in school settings where you will probably end up suspended.
Unless someone actually attacks you, then you do not need to fight. If they are calling you names and insulting you then grow a spine and tell them to **** off. Words only hurt you if you let them.
If you are attacked then you need to kick them in the nads. Do this hard. It is a quick sollution most of the time. After that they're pretty much easy to strike if you're quick about it.
But don't start a fight and don't care if people are saying anything to you.
And if you ignore them they will eventually stop. And even if they do keep going, you're ignoring them right? You shouldn't notice.
2007-12-20 19:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by ca_purcell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore everyone. You know what happened. The rest is BS. It will pass. If you let everyone know it's getting to you they will continue. This is a form of entertainment for the losers in life who don't have a life. They like to see other people in pain. So if you don't let it last, don't comment, they will look for other places to entertain themselves. Stay with you own circle of friends and move on. Never fight, only fight in self defense, and choose your enemies wisely. Avoid fights at all costs. A measure of a "man" is not how angry he gets, but, "what" makes him angry. Raise that bar so you know the little petty stuff won't get you angry. Good Luck.
2007-12-20 14:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by FILE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything, just leave it.
The guy who talks crap about you on his myspace is the real coward.
By just leaving it shows that you're a better person that what he is.
But it would've been best if you had just walked away from the fight in the first place, no matter what anyone says to you. Violence is never the answer.
2007-12-20 14:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is why i always state-"if an attack is imminent-go for the weakest points on the body-you only have to strike these once and it's game over-and no suffering from sleepless nights thinking "did i win or did i lose" done discreetly with no witnesses-the antagonists will know better in the future-i don't go looking for trouble but as far as i am concerned if an individual chooses of his own volition to attack me then i will deal with the situation in the only way i know how and i refuse to let it bother my conscience-it has worked for me in the past. i don't respond to words-but i find in life if those words are ignored then the antagonists are prepared to take it a step further and attack you physically if this happens then you must make them pay. i admire you for standing your ground.
2007-12-20 15:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by tony c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get over it and live your life.
Fighting is wrong, never choose to fight. Just walk away. if the person still attacks hen you are free to defend yourself.
Fighting is for people that have weak egos, little intelligence and can't think of a peaceful solution.
The best revenge is a life well lived.
2007-12-21 12:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by spidertiger440 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hadn't gotten into the fight in the first place, this wouldn't have happened and you would have nothing to worry about. I'm a black belt in karate and I know that fighting is bad and I have talked myself out of many fights. I'm in karate in case I CAN'T talk myself out of a fight sometime, but I avoid scenes that could possibly lead to my involvement in a fight.
2007-12-21 16:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by karatefreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soon some kid is going to fall down the stairs, or somebody is going to tell a teacher off in a rude way, and that will become the event of the day, and they'll forget all about you and your fight.
Not worth your energy.
2007-12-20 14:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should grow up and stop worrying about what people are saying on your myspace. no digs dude, you got in a fight so what. walk away and get over it. be the bigger man. people gun for tough guys but they respect men. oh, and keep your *** out of trouble dummy!!!
2007-12-20 14:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by tbernard4444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So this was a school fight and you got suspended? Did he? I'd say you're both even. Give it a rest.
2007-12-20 14:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋