Does he mean "I don't care"?
2007-12-20 05:19:59 · 61 answers · asked by Janet Reincarnated 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Wyvern13, I am impressed to see people like you who thinks a child is nothing but a financial burden for 18 years... I am speechless with such ignorance!
2007-12-20 05:43:00 · update #1
No, he probably means that since it a medical procedure to be performed on the woman's body, the choice is hers. At least that's what I mean.
2007-12-20 05:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 6⤋
Is the man in question the father of the child? If so then he is probably not interested in having a child, or perhaps it is the circumstances, maybe he isnt that into you, not just the child. And to add a kid in the mix would be bad for everyone.
I am from the old school that says "if you play you pay" So if a man fathers a child he should always take responsiblity.
But what if the female is unsure....then I can see a man saying it is her choice, as he is not the one who will carry the child for 9 months.
In the end it truly is the mothers choice.
2007-12-20 05:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by Audio Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, it means that he cannot possibly make the decision because
1. He is not carrying the baby
2. Does not know what its like to be a preg women
3. doesn't know the emotional state of the women
unless he is a heartless bastard, then he might not care. He can offer support. But otherwise it is probably b/c he could never understand the mother -child bond. 9 months they are together. Men will never understand pregnancy b/c they can't, physically and mentally. They can read books, but no first hand experience.
2007-12-20 05:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by blah 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a partial evasion of responsibility. The man fails to realise the impact that abortion has on women. Abortion when used as contraception (as it so often is) damages the woman's reproductive system and also her mind. Baby's have a connection with their mother and when they are aborted there's a loss, physically and spiritually. I don't know why it's taken so lightly. I don't understand how anyone could ever want to take the life of a little baby inside of them/
2007-12-20 05:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by : 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy:
if he is a no good loser or cheater or even giving you this question in any negitive way then you should not be having a baby with this person, im not at all saying that you should have an abortion, im saying srry that you got stuck with the loser
i would try and talk to the man about it somemore see where it goes, he may be scared, he may secretly want a child but is afraid of what your thinking, or he could be cheating on you and dump you at anytime and is basically saying get that out of the way and leave me alone,
men are hard to read but if he should be the one having your baby then you should know what he wants
2007-12-20 05:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by fallenanimalsangel 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He really only halfway means it isn't his business.
The operation will not concern his body, and as such he has no right to decide. However, the other half, 'does he want a baby' he has a right to answer, and it seems he isn't sure enough of himself to decide.
So: ask him more directly "Do you want a baby," make the decision yourself as well, and based on both your decisions, choose whether or not to have an abortion.
2007-12-20 05:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It means the man is not a man , but just a being that impregnate a woman the act of Lovemaking is what it is supposed to be this free sexual expression is garbage take pride and responsibility men and women save your bodies for your true Love and make it a thing of beauty not just another sexual happening it is probably one of the most important gifts you can give your mate along with your Love.
2007-12-20 05:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think its kind of sad when a man wants to keep the baby but has no rights to the child at all. This has happened to a few guys I know that really wanted to step up and be fathers but the women chose to have abortions anyway which I thought was ver sad.
2007-12-20 05:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jessa 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It means no matter what the man thinks, the woman is going to decide to keep or kill. Except in Georgia where the is a vague law that says if the woman is insane the man can have her locked in jail until the baby is born, and the vague part is determining if the woman is crazy.
2007-12-20 05:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by blase' blahhh 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
One of the biggest arguments in the abortion debate is the issue of when does human life begin.
There is not a scientist in the world who would tell you that any living creature in the world can reproduce any offspring of a different species.
DNA is the most basic foundational building block of life in both animal & man. It is the most basic building block that makes every creature ONLY ABLE to reproduce it's own kind! It cannot reproduce any other species except it's own!
Even in the creation af a human baby, both the woman's egg, & the man's sperm, ONLY contain HUMAN DNA!
From the moment that the woman's egg is fertilized, that joined cell contains ONLY HUMAN DNA!
Once the fertilized egg starts to grow, it still contains ONLY HUMAN DNA!
That fertilized egg will ONLY DEVELOP INTO a human baby, because it contains ONLY HUMAN DNA!
Looking at these facts, let us see what Scripture says about reproduction:
Genesis 1:24 (New International Version)
24 And God said, "Let the land produce living creatures according to their kinds: livestock, creatures that move along the ground, and wild animals, each according to its kind." And it was so.
Look at what I have underlined-".....each according to it's own kind."
When God created the world, He made it so that each creature, could only reproduce the same species! A cow could not reproduce a horse. A Pig could not reproduce a dog. Each creature that God created, could ONLY REPRODUCE IT'S OWN KIND-NOTHING ELSE!
It's the same way with humans-a human can only reproduce another human.
Regardless of what a baby looks like, when it is forming-it is still a human being!
It cannot be anything else!
When a human kills another human being-it is murder!
When a woman has an abortion-it is killing another human being, regardless of what stage of development the baby might might be in! Why is it murder-because the baby, even if it is unborn, has ONLY HUMAN DNA-NOTHING ELSE! It is STILL a human being!
An unborn baby is still a human being, because it CANNOT BE ANYTHING ELSE!
Abortion kills another human being.
Therefore abortion IS MURDER!
That's my opinion.
2007-12-20 05:25:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
great question- I can never understand how the father of the child, and girlfriend/husband of the woman could say such things as this- because believe you me, the man had a LOT to do with the woman getting pregnant. If the man really wanted his baby- he would do everything to fight for his/her life. I think it is saying- "I wanted the fun without the responsibility"
2007-12-20 05:24:08 · answer #11 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋