Don't you think they are prossibly the one who will turn their back on you if you get pregnant? Do you think they are responsible for their acts? Don't you think they will say to you "it is your choice", as if they mean "it's not my business"?
Food for thoughts!
2007-12-20 05:12:41 · 19 answers · asked by Janet Reincarnated 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No, no, I am not going out with a pro-choicer, Jeez!! I am married, I have 4 kids and I am pro-life and that's it.
2007-12-20 05:24:36 · update #1
_I_love_, so I am the one close-minded here??
2007-12-20 05:25:26 · update #2
Jen, yes, it is absolutely fair!!
2007-12-20 05:30:40 · update #3
Cynical, you are very... cynical??
2007-12-20 05:31:01 · update #4
No, I wouldn't be w/ a pro-choice man. A man may chose to dump you if you get pregnant whether or not he's pro-choice. It's called fear!They are just as responsible for an unwanted pregnancy as the woman.If they want to play, they should pay.
2007-12-20 05:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by paula r 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would. Just make sure that you are careful in using condoms and birth control like you would with any man. You can look at it as the glass is half full or the glass is half empty. Instead of thinking that the guy would turn his back maybe you could think that the guy cares about womens rights and her body. When I got pregnant at the age 15 my boyfriend at the time did give me the choice,although he did not want me to do it, and thank goodness I didn't want to have an abortion either because I have a wonderful son who is 12 years old that I could not have lived without. You say if the guy gets you pregnant. But it takes two. A guy can't do that on their own.
2007-12-20 13:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by jenny c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would. Pro choice just means a person supports the DECISION to have an abortion. To be pro choice does not imply that all babies should be aborted at conception. I am pro choice. I think women should have the option to do what they want with their bodies. It doesn't always mean that I agree with every single case that abortion is used, though. So, yeah...I would have sexual relations with a man that believes that I have a right to make a decision on what to do with MY OWN BODY. Pro-lifers take the pro choice theory to an extreme level.
2007-12-20 13:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by ALeoStar 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I married a man who is pro-choice. And no - he would never turn his back on me if I got pregnant. He's one of the most responsible men I know. I think you're wrong in your assumption that pro-choice men are responsibility shirkers. Another lame attempt to prove your alleged moral superiority... try again.
2007-12-20 13:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by swordarkeereon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would have sexual relations with a pro-choice man. I'd be more reluctant to with a man who is pro-life. I don't want a man who thinks he has the right to tell me what to do with my body and my future. That said, I wouldn't have sexual relations at all with a man who I wasn't handfasted (married) to.
2007-12-20 13:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, why does it matter? Does that mean every woman who is pro-choice is going to abort? Expand your mind a little. Some pro-life men may even go back on their own principles and may act differently than what you think.
2007-12-20 13:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by cynical 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's when love & trust come into play
It all depends on the scenario and age when a girl actually gets pregnant.
But no guy should ever tell a girl its her choice/none of their business because they are just as responsible as the girl!
A girl can't get herself pregnant !!
Therefore he should contribute just as much as she does.
Guys that turn their backs on girls are usually cowards anyway, because they don't want to face reality and accept the facts.
2007-12-20 13:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would never have a sexual relationship with a man who was ANTI choice. I am a thinking feeling sentinent being who can use my God given abilities. I am not a brainless walking womb who needs somebody else to make decisions for her. When I got pregnant my prochoice self and my prochoice boyfriend CHOSE to marry and have our child. 27 yrs of marriage (going on 28 in fact), 4 kids and 1 grandchild later I am very very thankful I had the ability to chose what was right for me and my body.
2007-12-20 13:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by busybee2 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Of course I would have sexual relations with a man who is pro-choice. Then, if something happened, and I didn't want to keep the baby, he would be more likely to agree to terminate the pregnancy. And if he's pro-choice and says I'm on my own, well then, that's what the court system is for.
But seriously - it's called birth control. If he wouldn't use it, I wouldn't be having sexual relations with him to begin with.
)O(
2007-12-20 13:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by wyvern1313 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Since you appear to be judgmental, close-minded, and self-righteous, I going to point something out. The question should be "would you marry a man who is pro-choice?" If you want to be high and mighty, you need to get it together.
2007-12-20 13:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by _I_love_warm_bananas_ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋