My brother in law is a jerk and the more people that meet him, the more people tell me so. My husband can't stand the childest things his brother pulls and that cause much tension between them. I hate the guy and wish I never had to see him again but he is my hubby's brother and I don't ever want it to be me that causes them to part ways. They were at one time very close but now they can't be in the same room with out a sarcastic remark being made which leads to more words being said. My hubby refuses to by a x-mas gift for his brother because of something very stupid his brother has done and although we aren't seeing each other for the holidays, I still think he should buy a gift. Should I just stay out of all of this or should I push my hubby into buying a gift? What should I do about all of this in general? Thanks!
2007-12-20 04:41:16 · 8 answers · asked by queenbee 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Generally, you should stay out it. Dont try to push your husband to send him a gift.
However, talk to him about it. Personally, I think that if your husband is above all this he should get him a gift (a small gift).
Good Luck.
2007-12-20 04:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by Dimitar A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband to get a gift! This will pass in time, and why add to the tension! Something cheap will do.
2007-12-20 04:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by aintbeggin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a very close cousin, that act he same way. My wife hate for us too get together because its always drama. But it is family so stay out of the way
2007-12-20 05:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it, and if he doesn't want to buy a gift you shouldn't force him to.
2007-12-20 04:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it.. it's your husband's issue, not yours.
even though you are married, you are still individuals... and in realizing that, you probably need to respect your husband's feelings. Whether you agree with him or not, doesn't matter.
take care and i hope you have a nice holiday
2007-12-20 04:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband doesn't want to buy a gift, then don't worry about it.
2007-12-20 04:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your hubby should decide if he should buy for the bro or not.
2007-12-20 04:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by blueeyes_unever_4get 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it.
2007-12-20 05:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋