i have this boy friend and he been wanting to go out with me for a while but last year i had an boyfriend that i were with for about 3 years but it didn't work out. am started to really like this boy but i don't know if he really want to be with me or do he just want to **** me. i think we should wait for about 3 or 6 months before we have SEX but its like he wants it every day and i keep telling him no not yet....its not that i don't want to have sex with him its just that i want to see do he really want to be with me.when we are together i make him horny so i understand that, and on friday i supose to be going over his house and i told him i wasn't going to do nothing he said why go then.......i really need help cause i like him alot and i had sex before so yea....i just don't know what to think
and i like other guys but am going out with him because am starting to fall in love with him but if he don't fell the same way
then i need to move on ...right!
2007-12-20 03:09:32 · 11 answers · asked by honeybear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only have sex when you are ready for it - don;t be pressured into it.
2007-12-20 03:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like each other and you both have a physical attraction to each other have sex with the guy. Women in relationship start thinking about themselves and not the other person. Think about his feelings. But if you dont want to do it then dont. What ever happened to making sure your man was satisfied and happy.
2007-12-20 11:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by $$$ SIDDHARTH SAXENA $$$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like each other and you both have a physical attraction to each other have sex with the guy. Women in relationship start thinking about themselves and not the other person. Think about his feelings. But if you dont want to do it then dont. What ever happened to making sure your man was satisfied and happy.
2007-12-20 11:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by Gregory H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making a simple situation complex. If you both want it, go for it & stop "WHAT IF" You'll make yourself crazy doing that. If he knows you've done it with someone else, he's wondering what's wrong with him? I don't see how you can wait 3 or 6 months. I can barely make it through the day without at least once.
2007-12-20 15:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats right, girl. Put him on test, let him wait. If he really does love you, he is going to wait, but if he keeps on the same subject, then U can realize that thats the only thing he really wants. Later on he will realize how much U are really worth it.
2007-12-20 11:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by cheli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him sincerely, and tell him about your feelings. If he already knows you are not a virgin, he's probably expecting you to have sex because you've already done it... is he a virgin? Because if he is not, I don't see why you shouldn't share physical contact with him (as long as you are responsible about it!!).
He's probably thinking "If she's done it before why isn't she doing it with me - what is wrong with me - she doesn't like me, etc."
Examine your feelings, and explain things to him. Always stand your ground, but don't forget that you aren't the only one whose feelings can get hurt.
2007-12-20 11:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel..
wen i split up with my boyfriend i found out the only reason he wnted to go with me was because i have big boobs for my age..
anyway, how long have you been going with him for?
i think you should wait until you's know eachother well and if he dosnt accept that, he's just in it for the sex unfortunatley..
hope he does return the feelings though =)
Dani xxx
2007-12-20 11:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by DanielleFloydOx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only wants you for one reason. You already know this. Don't let your emotions trap you. No guy should be begging for sex after you said no and explained how you felt.
2007-12-20 11:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by Patton 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"You make me feel so horny when I'm with you". Oh now there's a great romantic line. Oh yeah...you have a real winner there.
He's looking to get laid. Period.
2007-12-20 11:15:45 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with him. If he leaves, then you'll know.
2007-12-20 11:13:32 · answer #10 · answered by Vwgirl18 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋