how does it feel. what should u feel. should it be romantic or for pleasuer only?
2007-12-20 02:44:45 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IN proper time and Right person...YES!
For me it is romantic coz I only make love to my only love.No strangers,LOL.
2007-12-20 02:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by freeverse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can be great, whether used to cement the bonds between two people that love each other, or just for fun and frolicking! Neither type of sex is one bit wrong. Sex and love are two separate domains. One does not necessarily have sex with everyone he loves, in fact, in many cases such sex would be inappropriate or even criminal. Likewise, good sex, does not necessarily have to be with someone you love, although I think it is better WITH love than without. But that's personal preference. After all Ron Jeremy has had sex on film with thousands of beautiful women, and probably did not truly love ANY of them. He's probably the happiest man in America! What guy doesn't envy him? At my age, I don't have time for or need love anymore, just try to get sex when and wherever possible before age takes even that away.
2007-12-20 02:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by Keira D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does it feel? A little like masturbation, only much better.
What should you feel? Mainly, pleasure. If there's much pain, there's a physical issue that should be referred to a doctor. If there's much anxiety or other negative emotion, then there's some sort of relationship issue going on (although it's natural to be concerned about being discovered if your only option is a location that's not too private!)
Romance or pleasure? If sex isn't pleasurable, then it's become a chore. As for romance, sex is good by itself, love is good by itself, but they're both better when they go together.
2007-12-20 02:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by El Jefe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't think of anything I like better than sharing a good lovemaking session with my Significant Other! Sex is wonderful. It's very relaxing and pleasurable, if done right, by both people involved!!! Sure, it's romantic but it can also be just for the fun of it!!! Pleasure, fun, relaxing? It is still GOOD.
2007-12-20 02:48:35 · answer #4 · answered by LadyBug 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who you have sex with... If you know your body and what you like, you can make sex good with ALMOST anybody. To me, it feels grrrrrreat!!! If the person you're with is doing it right, you should feel like you're high from the minute the guy goes in. (If his penis is big enough, I can get an orgasm from that alone!) If the guy is really small or doesn't really get all that hard, the sex can suck. If he's really really big, it can hurt. It's unbelievable if you're old enough to know what you're doing. It can be romantic or just for pleasure. It just depends on what you're in the mood for...
2007-12-20 03:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by FoxxxyGirrrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on many different factors. Mindset, who you are with, how well you know each other. Romantic or pleasure--your choice. Definitely not only for pleasure, but not always romantic either. So, yes it is nice if you are with the right person.
2007-12-20 02:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by pupgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is great! Can be for romantic or just hooking up for pleasure.
Be sure and take precautions for STDs, pregnancy, etc. A condom is generally suitable for this.
People love having sex and talking about it. Look at how many responses you got!
Enjoy.
2007-12-20 03:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by madcat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can be. It depends on who you are with. Personally romantic is better but i've had pleasure only with no feelings involved and it wasn't bad either. Just depends on what you want for your life at this point!
2007-12-20 02:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that you are asking this question because youhave never done it before. Sex is different for everyone. Sex is supposed to be for reproduction but people use it just for pleasure when sometimes it isnt all the pleasurable.
2007-12-20 02:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by luvcaramel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but I know your interested in it and I know you think its OK and nothing can go wrong.Well there is.You can catch diseases and you can get a girl pregnant.Just promise me you will stick to masturbating only?Sex is a powerful bond between two people who love each other and want to create a new life together,not just for the feeling.Save it till your at least 18.Please?For me?
I know you think that this all doesn't make sense and it probably wont for awhile.
Sex at a young age can ruin your life,please just wait.The future is in your hands,you just need to learn how to control it.
here's a website I use my self,its a help4teens website,you should check it out.
http://www.groups.yahoo.com/
groups/help4teens
2007-12-20 02:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It needs to be with someone you are in love with ... and you need to be responsible about it!!
Sex is a LOT more than a physical pleasure ... it's a connection and it's also dangerous! If you don't take precautions you will have kiddos running around or diseases!!!
2007-12-20 02:54:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋